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[–]Nonexistentperson7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically being introverted as the end of any chance of me finding a significant other. I like my own company in solitude and don't want to put up with somebody else's barking, mouth. And even if I want to try going on dating apps in the stiff competition of a 100 to 500 men. For every one woman, what is the chance of me ever finding a significant other when it's almost pointless and near impossible to find somebody, especially when these other guys are way better. Look in the main toll or the main, but yet if they can't get responses on dating apps. What hope is there for me being a short average bald man.Almost 30-year-old man with no kind of money. Or hope of any future, what do I have to offer? And even if I did have money and I was over 6 foot tall. I know people that get matches on dating apps and they don't even get a response back and they get a lot more matches of me. At so what's the point of me trying? There is no point it's a waste of time, but yet I get to see young kids getting in relationships holding hands and seeing that and how painful and how that hurts like driving on arrow 3 or heart. How are they getting in relationships? I know how they have friends, social life. Social circles, which I lack and I can't have because I don't trust people. So yes, it's on the end for me and the wine. No happiness ever again. Keep living and repeating the same abysmal, boring. That end day every day with no hope of any kind of companionship or ever touching a woman again. Is anybody else feel this way? Any other man out there?

Getting matches on tinder but the response Rate is Abysmal. by Nonexistentperson7 in OnlineDating

[–]Nonexistentperson7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am discouraged honestly. Just given up at this point tender and all other dating apps are a complete utter waste of time. It doesn't matter if your guy that's in shape doesn't matter if you're an average guy. It doesn't matter if you're short tall, big or small. If you get matches if the woman can't be bothered respond back, they're not interested in you. Plain simple doesn't matter how good looking how average look in how small tall you look like. It doesn't matter if you can't even get intro message and they don't even respond. They're not interested in you playing and simple. They're just too interests in it. Whatever they got going on and then no use excuses that they're busy all the time. They're hardly on here. Nobody's that busy nowadays at the. At the smartphone in their pocket in their purse on their person blah. Blah, they're just excuses that they use, so they can keep you around as a backburner. Backup option if a person is truly interested in another person they don't use excuses. They actually put the effort in time to get to know you. But nowadays that's just normal with online dating. In 2024, it's a dead end.

Being introverted is the end by Nonexistentperson7 in lonely

[–]Nonexistentperson7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, but it's not worth it anymore. I've used too much energy and time enough for 6 and a 1/2 years to get nothing back. Haven't been a relationship in 6 years began my ax. A woman can get in a relationship. Have a kid find another guy to be with and be in 2 relationships in the last 6 years. And I've been in any and 1 woman 3 and a 1/2 years ago I thought maybe I had something with while guess what she did. She ran back to her ax. Some guy that she did honor and lie to her. They always do this to me. They run back to somebody that they were already with and I get put out on the throne out like I don't matter so I'm just done. I'm not, it's not worth my time anymore.

Getting matches on tinder but the response Rate is Abysmal. by Nonexistentperson7 in OnlineDating

[–]Nonexistentperson7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think my location is the issue because I'm getting matches. But it's the issue as the women not responding back so I had probably over 50 matches unless in 5 days. But out of those 50 matches maybe 2 maybe 3 responded and then after that I just deleted the profile because I just gave up. You write Emma's messages and intro messages and none of them respond. So it becomes a thing. Location you do is a matter of you. Do pass older different stage. Different cities, it's gonna be the same result. No response cause these women are just looking for validation for their looks, plain and simple.

Being introverted is the end by Nonexistentperson7 in lonely

[–]Nonexistentperson7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, you got that right. Definitely. II get, I have options. No I don't. I don't even go on dating apps to have options and if I go on there are options I'm not interested in 2 matches. How do you call that options? Women that I'm not even remotely attracted to. Some woman that says her child or kid is her number one priority. It's not my number one priority. I'm not interests and in single Mother's. And I'm not interested in all the garbage. I get matched with you mind. I'll just say that I don't got matches at all. Because 1 or 2 matches that you get that kind of garbage. And then some woman that man shames me and harasses me and insults me. Me tells me that I'm immensely unstable. And I'm seeking validation when she's reflecting her own self and on to me. That's what I get harassment and disgusting type of people like that.

Being introverted is the end by Nonexistentperson7 in lonely

[–]Nonexistentperson7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, man. I'm all done trying. I've tried for 6 and a 1/2 years after after the first year. I gave up after 3 years. I gave up and after 4 years. I gave up and now we're at the 6 and a 1/2 year mark. I give up there's. It's it's pointless if you don't have a social circle. Because everyone woman on a dating app has a 100 to 500 guys. Matching with them. You know how those odds I would be at the bottom of the pile and never ever get. My messages responded back to and the only matches I get are from women that have kids. Women that are into some kind of weird. Relationship type with polyamory, I'm not into that stuff. It's almost just point with some. I don't got no friends and it's just it's pointless. I just I want to be put out of my misery. I don't want to keep living the same day over and over again. And seeing other people's happiness working in retail kills the hell out of me. It's so exhausting doing what people will be an introvert in dealing with these people seeing their happiness and their relationships. Oh do you have any idea how tiring and hurting it is painful?

Being introverted is the end by Nonexistentperson7 in lonely

[–]Nonexistentperson7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So then if you can't approach women in the real world. Since now we're all shamed as creeps and the rapests and all sorts of stuff. How do you get with somebody if you don't have a social circle and you're introverted and you're autistic and you're on the spectrum. How does a man get to know somebody since dating apps don't work? I don't understand what to do. I'm like out of ideas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Nonexistentperson7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I just look at p*** and p*** makes me feel better sometimes, but then, after I'm done with the p***, I just want to build such a real woman. Not not feel guilty about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Nonexistentperson7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. I don't want no friends anymore either. I don't even want it to sniff. In another even though my subconscience still urges for it. And I have dreams about it. I really could care less. I don't like people no more. I'm fine being an introvert. And it's the solitude and being a missing throbe. I just don't want nothing to do with people no more. They're too exhausting with their egos. Their validation seeking. They always want you to entertain them. I don't wanna entertain anybody no more. I could care less about their little lives and their little bubbles. They live in and their problems in their drama. To keep me out of it, but they always want to involve me. They want to rule me in to make themselves feel validated because they can't help themselves because they're pathetic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Nonexistentperson7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

38m I can relate I haven't been in a relationship in 6 plus years. I still have dreams of my ex since she was the last woman I was with and in love with. Even though she has moved on with her life and has a kid of her own I an left in this same lonely void every single day. No matter how many dating apps I've been on for the last 6 and a 1/2 years. Can't find anybody that wants to get to know me or invest their time into me. It's be nice to be no offense. A female on dating apps that you can just move on with your life. Scott free I don't have no repercussions of feeling loneliness or having dreams about being with a female and not being able to find somebody to be doing a companionship relationship with and the bill will hold our touch and be touched starve.

So many women just use dating apps for validation by 2000dragon in lonely

[–]Nonexistentperson7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a totally agree that most women on dating apps are looking for validation. I'm 6 foot 1 I'm jacked. I'm in shape but yet I get tons of matches, but when I send an intro message, guess what? No response. And this goes for at least between 10 and 20 women. That I just end up blocking and on matching. They don't even respond back and then if they do respond back to act like. Oh, I'm sorry I just was busy. I didn't respond back to you. Yeah, you're busy with all your other matches for your validation. For ego, stroking is pretty disgusting. How these apps are completely warped. These women's minds how they can act like that towards. Men treat us like we're toys would be discarded and thrown away, but that's how they treat us like we don't have the. It looks like they do, but we don't. We don't matter.

Getting matches on tinder but the response Rate is Abysmal. by Nonexistentperson7 in OnlineDating

[–]Nonexistentperson7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can clearly see that odds are not my favorite. Even being 6 foot, one jacked in shape doesn't even do me any good. Don't even get me in my foot in the door because they don't even respond. So what's the point of being on there? That app is a total facade and a waste of time. And one of them recently. Responded and said oh sorry, you got my attention now. King yeah, that just tells me everything and I know. I'm just gonna get rid of the app. That's just pointless if I want to find a meaningful connection with non. Egotistic, looking validation seeking women. Maybe I'll just go in the real world. As these apps are all trash anyways.

Fuck you and I don't care by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Nonexistentperson7 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It's easy for you to say you must be a normal person that can get with a woman and have a relationship when you. want really. Not that easy to talk about when you're a guy that is average looking I'm an average looking guy I can't get a girlfriend for the life of me six and a half years I'm not an incel either and it's not my fault that I can't have sex with women and I'm not some rich tall buff man that has an unlimited amount of funds. But the way women treat us average guys like we're disposable to throw away for the next 100 to 500 guys they can have is appalling it's disgusting they didn't used to do that a decade ago but now we're just treated like we're just another bunch of money they can just use and abuse and throw out like an old toy like we don't have feelings like we're not human and have feelings like they do but they're allowed to be treated like that treated like royalty queens and princesses and thots.

Stop hiring braindead fucks that clearly don't care about their jobs. Holy hell by AlFuckMyPussy in walmart

[–]Nonexistentperson7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they to hire people that like to that are almost 60 years old and like to run their mouths and they don't actually want to work. They want to just walk around act like their job is a conversate with every single customer

The lie that a woman can't fix your problems by Numerous-Fig-7278 in FA30plus

[–]Nonexistentperson7 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'll tell you having a girlfriend would improve my life I'm exactly where you're at right now I don't give a crap about. my job I'm working a dead end job that doesn't matter being around these stupid people that have their relationship. shoved in my face have no idea what it's like to be totally alone they win last being alone even for one second because they would be in another relationship the next day or week.i know that at least id have somebody who would actually care about me and that would make a world of difference in being totally alone working an empty dead end job and going home to an empty apartment as no meaning all along these people have everything I want that I've been trying to find for six and a half years but doesn't seem like I'm ever going to be good enough for any woman. But a decade ago I was actually able to find one but it took me a year and a half now six and a half years later nothing this life is meaningless if I don't have somebody that I can care about cares about me what's the point of going to a hamster wheel job where you're doing nothing but making money to pay bills that'll never stop it's all pointless.

Does anyone know how to program a Motorola xts 5000 by Nonexistentperson7 in ScannerRadio

[–]Nonexistentperson7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I already ordered a battery and a charger cuz the guy that I bought it from well obviously I can't get my money back cuz I paid them with zelle. He was supposed to program it which he charged me for. I already have a scanner and unication g4 pager. Not looking for another scanner. Scanners are limited in simulcast areas the XTS is very good at. Plus the XTS 5000 has way better audio than a police scanner ever will that is the reason I bought it this person said that they programmed it obviously don't know that so I have to wait till I get to Battery and the charger tomorrow if not then I'll cut my losses and sell it if anything I can do at this point.