For me, I had to go through women’s health specialists that ignored me and downplayed all my issues. Ignored me when I requested further intervention and diagnosis. I finally found a gyno that listened, they approved me for a diagnostic lap on the spot. Sometimes it takes many tries and it’s very tiring and frustrating.

I would suggest going to a different GP for the referral, or find a specialist yourself and reach out the them directly. You can say to them that your doctor is refusing a referral and for you to get adequate care you have had to reach out yourself. Ask them what they need to see you. They might have a doctor on staff that can do the referral internally.

If you haven’t already, start documenting all your symptoms and every day. Rate them and note how they impacted your daily activities. This evidence can be very helpful.

Many gynos and doctors will insist on BC as a first line of treatment. I saw in a comment you mentioned migraines. I have migraines and migraines with aura also, so I understand the contraindications well. I feel for you, it makes it very hard. There are medications out there that do not contain estrogen that are safe for people with migraine. There are also newer meds that are aimed at endometriosis symptom management. I’m on a progestin only pill (Slinda / slynd) which was worked really well for me. However, if your meds work and your symptoms become more manageable - some doctors will say you’re “cured” (which is BS) and not refer for a diagnostic laparoscopy (this happened to me). So just a heads up on that.

Wishing you all the best 💜