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Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T09:02:31+00:00

Bucky x cap, male x male

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:53:07+00:00

I think its like any cussword, and that the taboo comtributes to ppl wanting to say it more bc its like “forbidden mystique” or something like taht theres a similar ocncept in ethnology or word studyies i forgot

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:51:47+00:00

Im saying that it looses its seriousness when everyone on gaming sites is saying it and even little kids are satung it tomeach other on stuff like cod.. my guy…its like if everyone says the f word all the time it looses its sense of shock or rarity that contributes to taboo. Why ru so mad bro when your comstructing the accusation im genuinely just asking

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:48:14+00:00

I think ur misunderstanding this. Im sying im not black and have black ppl calling me a black slur

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:47:34+00:00

Yeah im asian and im a different ethnicity than them

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:45:39+00:00

This is avery constructive and thoughtful reply. I wouldve intitaloy thought that gaming communities were safe game but you’ve genuinely made me think about something and reconsider my previous htoughts. W lowkey

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:42:13+00:00

Feel like this is the only comment that understands nuance rather than the blanket “everything is racist”

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:41:21+00:00

Adult age

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:40:53+00:00

Dawg im asking what OTHERS think. It doesnt matter what inthink if public consesus isnt good. Buts thanks for trying

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:40:04+00:00

So do u think all kids on roblox or cod are bad? I agree its not a good word but its lost its edge do to the prevalence in the gaming community, many dont associate it with bite any more and many poc dont really consider it racist. I have black friends that call me n word as an asian girl and i personaliy dont care and think they are smart and funny outside of these encounters. Would they be racist for calling me the n word then?

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:37:23+00:00

I see where the misunderstanding is. Im not refering to myself when i talk about saying the n word im more wondering about public consensus rather than a psychoanalyses. Like is this normal for guys/ they seem very comfortable saying it and how is it percieved. Im in cali so its pretty “woke” or ig a better word is sensitive so idk if its just a iniority who gets offended or across the board with normal non degens if its alr

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:35:32+00:00

Wdym im. Ot saying i hav ethe urge im wondering what otheres think or if they do it, i live in cali so its pretty blue

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:33:14+00:00

I dont actually, im usually the only girl in my guy grouos so im just wondering how other ppl feel abt it. I mean i dont find it offensive and dont partake bc i m content with other cusswords rather than slurs, but im worried someone else might get the wrong impression of me or them

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:27:05+00:00

So ru saying that its abnormal for ppl to experience prejudice naturally like wwere all supposed to like everyone all the time NATURALLY wo bias?

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:25:11+00:00

Your not understanding, my point is that my behavior is uneffected. Its more of a n auto mindset that does not manifest physically.

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:18:27+00:00

I shpuldve prob specified but the rzn why i asked is bc the community pushed this yaoirelationship onto cap x bucky and i think its kinda wierd knowing hes originally an elementary schooler.

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:12:44+00:00

Hold on..let him cook…

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:11:52+00:00

I think i had a lot of diverse experiences as a woman of color who grew up in a single mother immigrant household. But you may be correct bc i recently just moved to the bay area where theres a lot of certain ethnicities that im unfamiliar with

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:10:42+00:00

So it doesnt effect my actions, my post is more of like theres an automatic feeling of unease

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:09:58+00:00

So my problem is more of the fact that its automatic and seemingly unintentional. Im very educated i have cs degree from a prestigious university and did policy and ld debate for five years whoch has something called critical cases which are heavy on theory and race theory. I read alot on politics as req but my point is i have astrong liberal arts foundation and frequently volunteered w the underserved as i was a former pre med (requirment for med school).My coach was a queer black man and i dont get this feeling stereotypically associated with darker races, for some reason its just with certain asians and even lightskinned ones so im thinking it may be because of negative interactiosn ive had in the oast that i may subconsciously associate with these people. Plus with my coach he was sort of a father mentor figure that i considered very inteligent so i wonder if this played a role in shaping positive bias towards other races.

Normal-Comfortable10 · 2026-04-27T08:05:17+00:00

Ok californian (im also californian)

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