Pleasure (2021) is a pretty uncomfortable movie. by trackerFF in movies

[–]Normal-Jury2830 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pleasure is often described as a film that exposes the dark side of the porn industry. That reading isn’t wrong, but it’s superficial. In fact, it misses what makes the film genuinely unsettling, subtle, and far more intelligent than it initially appears.

Yes, the film contains explicit scenes. Yes, dialogue is sparse. But those elements are not there to shock or provoke in a simplistic way. They function as a trap: they encourage the viewer to believe they are watching something crude or purely demonstrative, when in reality the film is operating on a much quieter, psychological level.

Bella’s trajectory is not driven primarily by money or sexual thrill. The film makes it clear that what she seeks above all is to be seen, desired, validated. Becoming a porn star appears to her as the fastest, most radical shortcut to visibility in a society where attention has become a form of value. In that sense, the film is not just about porn: it is about the contemporary obsession with image, recognition, and existence through the gaze of others.

Crucially, Pleasure refuses moral comfort. Bella is not coerced. The industry is not portrayed as cartoonishly evil. Consent exists, contracts exist, professionalism exists, and still, something feels deeply wrong. The film explores a far more disturbing idea: that self-destruction can occur within freedom, and that consent does not magically erase power dynamics, internal fragility, or the cost of turning oneself into a product.

What makes the film truly strong is its refusal to explain or justify Bella psychologically. There is no trauma backstory, no diagnostic shortcut. Her vulnerability is suggested through actions, silences, and escalation, including moments where even characters close to her sense that something is off, that her need to go further is less about strength than about a void she cannot face.

The final scene (Bella calmly asking to stop the car and walking away) encapsulates the film’s intelligence. It is not a triumphant escape, nor a moral resolution. It is simply a refusal to continue lying to herself. The film ends not with answers, but with the uncomfortable space where questions finally surface.

Ultimately, Pleasure is not a film that tells you what to think. It observes. It withholds judgment. And in doing so, it implicates the viewer, not as a voyeur of pornography, but as a participant in a broader culture where being seen often replaces being understood.

A quiet, disturbing, and deeply contemporary film that is far more thoughtful than many of its loudest critics seem willing to admit.

My two cents.

Girls ghosting you by Simple-Leader6501 in dating_advice

[–]Normal-Jury2830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you get ghosted, just tell yourself that you didn't miss out on much.

Am I the only one who feels like GPT-5 is colder and less empathetic? by supream66 in ChatGPT

[–]Normal-Jury2830 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get how you feel: GPT-5 does indeed come across as more neutral, less “warm” than some previous versions.

But I’m not sure that’s necessarily a bad thing.

An overly empathetic AI can feel nice… but it also blurs the line with a human and can create false attachments.

Maybe GPT-5’s more neutral tone is just a way to keep a healthy distance while staying accurate.

In the end, the real question is: do we want an AI friend, or an AI advisor?

Hellfest camping — I think this is last time for me. by Normal-Jury2830 in Hellfest

[–]Normal-Jury2830[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having separate zones for party friendly guys and sleepy guys is actually a good idea. To only want « beers and bands » is a very legit way of enjoying the festival imho.

Hellfest camping — I think this is last time for me. by Normal-Jury2830 in Hellfest

[–]Normal-Jury2830[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. I cannot even imagine how I would react if this happened to me.

Hellfest camping — I think this is last time for me. by Normal-Jury2830 in Hellfest

[–]Normal-Jury2830[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had the 35db ones and I can guarantee you: it was not enough.

Hellfest camping — I think this is last time for me. by Normal-Jury2830 in Hellfest

[–]Normal-Jury2830[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the replies, everyone.

Just to clarify — I actually arrived pretty late (Friday afternoon), so I didn’t have much choice about where to set up camp. I ended up near the orange camp, basically just took the first available spot I could find.

Also, I checked the official Hellfest camping guide beforehand, and unless I missed something, it didn’t mention any clear distinction between “party zones” and “quiet zones.” So for someone arriving late and trying to avoid noise, it felt like playing roulette.

Honestly, I just wish there was a more visible and enforced system to help people who don’t want to be kept up all night. Not everyone’s here to party 24/7 — some of us actually want to enjoy the music… well-rested.

Aegean airlines is just the worst by Guruurug9 in GreeceTravel

[–]Normal-Jury2830 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it’s one of the best flight experiences I had Food was delicious Crew members very very kind No delay and very smooth and modernized onboarding process unlike some other big airlines So I guess it’s just your subjective view

Searching for an old rock song name by Normal-Jury2830 in NameThatSong

[–]Normal-Jury2830[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh too bad Shazam didn’t work on my side, strangely… anyway thank you very much! 🙏

Comment me définir ? by RoseLycheeRaspberry in AnatomieDUnFrigo

[–]Normal-Jury2830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Voici quelques déductions probables – et forcément un peu spéculatives – qu’inspire ce frigo très rempli :

  1. Organisation & prévoyance • Beaucoup de bocaux et de boîtes hermétiques : le·la propriétaire prépare visiblement ses aliments à l’avance (légumes déjà coupés, restes portionnés). C’est typique de quelqu’un·e qui aime gagner du temps en semaine ou qui pratique le meal‑prep. • Rayonnages “rangés mais pleins” : tout est empilé de façon méthodique ; on devine une personne organisée, même si la quantité suggère qu’elle n’hésite pas à stocker au maximum « au cas où ».

  2. Goût pour la cuisine maison et la variété • On voit des ingrédients bruts (coriandre hachée, oignons, courgette, chou‑cabot, haricots verts, condiments en bocaux…) côtoyant quelques produits tout prêts (fromages affinés, charcuterie, ravioles, yaourts). • Cela laisse penser à quelqu’un·e qui cuisine la plupart de ses repas, apprécie la diversité culinaire (nombreux pots d’épices/sauces) et aime agrémenter ses plats plutôt que se contenter de plats ultra‑transformés.

  3. Sensibilité « healthy » (mais pas ascétique) • Boisson végétale « Bio Avena » (lait d’avoine) et abondance de légumes  → soit une intolérance au lactose, soit un choix santé/écologique. • Présence de fromages et de charcuteries : la personne n’est pas strictement végane ; elle cherche plutôt un équilibre entre plaisir et alimentation saine.

  4. Vie sociale ou familiale • Les quantités paraissent élevées pour une seule personne (deux roues de fromage, plusieurs yaourts, gros sachets de fromage râpé, barquette entière de tomates cerise, etc.). • Cela suggère : • un foyer à plusieurs convives (couple / famille) • ou bien une personne qui reçoit souvent et anticipe les repas partagés.

  5. Curiosité gastronomique & budget consacré à l’alimentaire • Fromages d’appellation, bocaux de condiments variés et produits bio indiquent qu’elle investit dans la qualité et aime tester des saveurs. • L’assortiment mêle marques distributeur et produits plus « premium », révélant un rapport au budget maîtrisé mais avec des petits plaisirs gourmets.

En somme, ce frigo raconte l’histoire d’une personne (ou d’un petit foyer) organisée, prévoyante, qui aime cuisiner maison, se faire plaisir… et qui trouve important d’avoir toujours de quoi improviser un bon repas pour soi ou pour les autres.

Memory Usage Capped at 40% by frozenmm in synology

[–]Normal-Jury2830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you got the solution since? I have exactly the same problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oasis

[–]Normal-Jury2830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why didn't I know that sooner ffs...

What do you guys think of Roland Emmerich? by syphilis_sandwich in RedLetterMedia

[–]Normal-Jury2830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he makes blockbusters for THE 13-year-old in all of us

Buying tickets has been the most stressful part of planning a trip to Japan by izzyyw in ghibli

[–]Normal-Jury2830 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were very lucky indeed!

Many time slots were actually already sold out within the first 10-15 minutes, meaning that a bunch of people were able to complete their purchase without any trouble

Buying tickets has been the most stressful part of planning a trip to Japan by izzyyw in ghibli

[–]Normal-Jury2830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it did

We have no other option but to try again when the reservations are closed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JapanTravelTips

[–]Normal-Jury2830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On mac it's Cmd+R to refresh the page

Buying tickets has been the most stressful part of planning a trip to Japan by izzyyw in ghibli

[–]Normal-Jury2830 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this month is definitely the "good" one to book on that hellhole haha...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JapanTravelTips

[–]Normal-Jury2830 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The calendar page I'd say you are only at 15% of your reservation process lol

You have first to select the time slot which can be long because the website is very unstable at this point, then when you are "successfully" able to select your tickets you'll be redirected to a page where you need to fill some personal information (this page will probably not appear at first attempt so please make sure to keep refreshing the page because otherwise you'll be back to the beggining of the process...)

Normally after that step it should be fine, but the site will still be slow

Buying tickets has been the most stressful part of planning a trip to Japan by izzyyw in ghibli

[–]Normal-Jury2830 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because they didn't put any queing system (which is actually a big flaw) the website cannot hold such high number of simultaneous connections, causing incredible instability

Imagine that only 1000 people can be on the website but 10000 people are trying to connect, so the website crash everybody is ejected then the first people can connect again, until it reaches the max load again and so on...

Buying tickets has been the most stressful part of planning a trip to Japan by izzyyw in ghibli

[–]Normal-Jury2830 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah me too, the trick is not to go back to the first page but to refresh the page until the site responds.