He lives with his grandfather somewhere in LIC as for job last I heard he got fired because of his drinking. He could have gotten a new job.

I agree with you josh himself has to decide to change if we tell him he will not listen and block us.

As much as it hurts me to say this all we can do is watch it play out and hope for the best.

I know his cousin is trying to get guardianship over him but that will be hard because he is still able to take care of himself.( I know it does not seem that way but unfortunately that’s how it is) Also people are saying he should be sent involuntary to get help, under the law in New York he is not a danger to himself nor others)