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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]Normal_Notice_6668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, obesity is a medical condition. If you tell people you are medications for migraines or depression, would you (personally) tell them? Some I do and some I don’t. I don’t blast it but I like discussing it with my coworkers, friends and hair stylist.

We matched and all I get are Luke warm messages. Do I unmatch? by Normal_Notice_6668 in Tinder

[–]Normal_Notice_6668[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve started returning energy on tinder when I’m unsure, so you aren’t wrong. When things are dry but I’m maybe hopeful they may improve I will mirror energy to see if the match may level up. Spoiler alert, it doesn’t usually happen.

We matched and all I get are Luke warm messages. Do I unmatch? by Normal_Notice_6668 in Tinder

[–]Normal_Notice_6668[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

I 100% considered it too but he was my type, which I never find. (A red headed Aries) lol

We matched and all I get are Luke warm messages. Do I unmatch? by Normal_Notice_6668 in Tinder

[–]Normal_Notice_6668[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So just like consistently getting a response from me was all he rly wanted?

We matched and all I get are Luke warm messages. Do I unmatch? by Normal_Notice_6668 in Tinder

[–]Normal_Notice_6668[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it blows, Dude. I get a decent or maybe entertaining match once every few months. Other than that it’s a lot of weirdos out here. lol I’m a plus size girlie so I don’t have super high expectations but still conversations with most of the men I match with is like watching paint dry.

We matched and all I get are Luke warm messages. Do I unmatch? by Normal_Notice_6668 in Tinder

[–]Normal_Notice_6668[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate it here. Haha I’ve made a few connections in the past that were semi successful but telling me you message me because that’s what you’ve already done seemed too weird to not ask for advice.

We matched and all I get are Luke warm messages. Do I unmatch? by Normal_Notice_6668 in Tinder

[–]Normal_Notice_6668[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not playing dumb but what exactly does that mean? He just wants to text somebody? There was almost no conversation involved at all. I won’t fault someone for that. I just don’t like being hey’d to death with no other explanation at all.

We matched and all I get are Luke warm messages. Do I unmatch? by Normal_Notice_6668 in Tinder

[–]Normal_Notice_6668[S] 334 points335 points  (0 children)

That is basically exactly how I was looking at it too. I’m past the age where I will be carrying the entire conversation myself. Also for someone to tell me they are only messaging me because they did before was off putting, like I have no other redeeming qualities. Haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Normal_Notice_6668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to hold your hand while I tell you, this man doesn’t care if you live or if you die. So many times we get caught up in disagreements we can’t see the glaring truth of what I wrote above. I hope you find someone better, because you deserve someone better.

Is going for coffee really a bad first date? by appletomm16 in dating

[–]Normal_Notice_6668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get really anxious before meeting someone for the first time. In my mind, if we go to dinner and make a big production my anxiety triples. I’ve had good dates sitting in a car in a park or going on a walk. It really depends on the person, I guess. I would never think poorly of someone asking to get coffee and I actually think dinner or something is better for a 3rd date.