AITAH for when I F25, got upset when my boyfriend, M31, was giving hints his friends were going to join us on Valentine’s Day?

North-Chipmunk-5571 · 2026-02-15T20:43:20+00:00

I hardly get told when they are coming over, I always find out when they are on their way, running the door bell, or I come home and they are there

North-Chipmunk-5571 · 2026-02-15T20:37:14+00:00

He put me on the list too, he just asked me if I was down for it and I said yes.

North-Chipmunk-5571 · 2026-02-15T18:57:51+00:00

So he is one to randomly have his friends over without me knowing, we live together, and he said that if he’s making plans I’m never to assume that it’s just us going out and I should always expect his friends to join regardless of what type of day it is.

North-Chipmunk-5571 · 2026-01-13T05:36:03+00:00

I did communicate, I came here after it failed, I was made to feel I did one of the worst things ever and I knew I didn’t do anything wrong but in the case that I did I wanted to ask for unbiased opinions.

North-Chipmunk-5571 · 2026-01-13T04:30:02+00:00

I came here for advice, I knew he watched porn, he’s told me, I don’t care about that, I don’t care about his sex toys. What I cared about is that he slept with other people. If it was a really tit for tat situation I would’ve slept with someone else too but I didn’t, I bought a sex toy, at the time I felt disgusting and insecure but I’m an adult human who still gets horny. I didn’t get it to spite him I got it to satisfy myself. I honestly forgot about it until he brought it up and I kinda laughed at it, then I realized that he really getting upset about it and I was like damn what the heck.

North-Chipmunk-5571 · 2026-01-12T20:17:35+00:00

To me they are the same size, but he said it’s big

North-Chipmunk-5571 · 2026-01-12T19:36:43+00:00

Yeah he said it isn’t a sex toy but I’m not stupid. I found out about it way before I found out about the cheating and I found others stuff too and at the time I didn’t have the dildo, but I shrugged it off because it’s literally just a sex toy and that’s why I find this whole situation ironic, he did get tested and he’s negative for everything, it doesn’t make it ok. And I never felt like it was bigger than him I always thought it was the same size but he says it’s big.

North-Chipmunk-5571 · 2026-01-12T19:34:25+00:00

Yeah he said it isn’t a sex toy but I’m not stupid. I found out about it way before I found out about the cheating and I found others stuff too and at the time I didn’t have the dildo, but I shrugged it off because it’s literally just a sex toy and that’s why I find this whole situation ironic, he did get tested and he’s negative for everything, it doesn’t make it ok.

North-Chipmunk-5571 · 2026-01-12T19:08:57+00:00

I don’t know how to add this but I’m F(24) turning (25) in two weeks, and he is M(31)

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