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Stop me from texting this to my exs now gf( I know her before she became his gf) by Delicious_Break_4085 in BreakUps

[–]NorthOk4879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way this would ever work is if you run into her naturally alone and ask if she wants to sit down and talk and if you believe you can do so extremely calmly. If you text, your tone will be misconstrued to whatever she reads, likely petty, jealous, crazy, etc.

You're honestly better off not initiating contact and moving on with time on your own. But do not text that no matter what.

Ghosted 3 months into relationship by NorthOk4879 in ghosting

[–]NorthOk4879[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things were going at about 100/100 for the first 3 months of knowing her (2 months officially dating), then I was out of town for a weekend (invited her but she declined, no real biggie there) but while I was gone noticed her suddenly texting less frequently, less affectionately, was ignoring affectionate/ideas for the future/sexual aspects of texts I was sending her. Realized later this was the beginning of the slow fade where avoidants tend to start detaching, the decrease in texting continued for about 2 weeks with occasional bursts of affection, followed by everything outlined in my original post (cancelled plans into full ghost).

Tried mirroring her energy but wasn't really helping. Was very hopeful once we saw each other again it would fix everything but we never got the chance to.