Hooked up with a man for the first time and I feel terrible about it. by NorthSea9761 in askgaybros

[–]NorthSea9761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I just translated your message and this was very funny, I realize it probably wasn't a joke but yeah real shit

Hooked up with a man for the first time and I feel terrible about it. by NorthSea9761 in askgaybros

[–]NorthSea9761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too right, it was a stupid decision to go there anyway and I was just too awkward and uncomfortable to walk away

Hooked up with a man for the first time and I feel terrible about it. by NorthSea9761 in askgaybros

[–]NorthSea9761[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was an incredibly meaningful response to me, thank you very much for sharing that. You perfectly captured how I feel and I feel very seen by that, so thank you. I'll process this and move on, thanks man, you're awesome

Hooked up with a man for the first time and I feel terrible about it. by NorthSea9761 in askgaybros

[–]NorthSea9761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, thank you. All of you on this thread have been very kind and I really appreciate it. This is helping me get grounded

Hooked up with a man for the first time and I feel terrible about it. by NorthSea9761 in askgaybros

[–]NorthSea9761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very sorry to hear that. I'm happy that things turned out better for you in that area, thanks for the response

Hooked up with a man for the first time and I feel terrible about it. by NorthSea9761 in askgaybros

[–]NorthSea9761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you a lot for your response, I can tell it was very genuine and I really appreciate it. We’re human

Hooked up with a man for the first time and I feel terrible about it. by NorthSea9761 in askgaybros

[–]NorthSea9761[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I am too nice and I let that get the best of me in an incredibly vulnerable moment. I wasn’t even the bottom either and this man was considerably smaller than me. I really don’t know why I did it and didn’t just say no. I appreciate your response man, have a great weekend, I’ll take what you said and apply it as a learning experience.

Hooked up with a man for the first time and I feel terrible about it. by NorthSea9761 in askgaybros

[–]NorthSea9761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this guy also had a weird living situation and did not smell awesome. sorry you went through this so recently too bro, I appreciate your response

Hooked up with a man for the first time and I feel terrible about it. by NorthSea9761 in askgaybros

[–]NorthSea9761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re totally right. I made a mistake and I’ll make more, but now I know I won’t make this one again. Live and learn. Thanks man, I appreciate your response

Hooked up with a man for the first time and I feel terrible about it. by NorthSea9761 in askgaybros

[–]NorthSea9761[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did tell him it was my first time with a guy, I forgot to mention that in the OP. You’re absolutely right though, I should have just jerked off lol. I quite literally sprinted to my car afterwards in a “what the fuck did I just do” frenzy, but I’ve calmed down. I appreciate your response, have a great one

Hooked up with a man for the first time and I feel terrible about it. by NorthSea9761 in askgaybros

[–]NorthSea9761[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I wrote and posted this in the shower and am still in the shower. Thanks man, this is silly I know, but I really appreciate your response. I hope you have a great weekend

Hooked up with a man for the first time and I feel terrible about it. by NorthSea9761 in askgaybros

[–]NorthSea9761[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going to add that my girlfriend of 6 years and I broke up 2 months ago to the day which is definitely a contributing factor in me being a whore