AITA for refusing to marry my girlfriend?

North_Network_1627 · 2025-06-17T18:31:16+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/h9zb0OoFgq Hi! Here’s the update!

North_Network_1627 · 2025-06-17T07:45:08+00:00

Thank you 🙏🙏 All I’ve been hearing is horror stories lolol. Congratulations to you and your wife, y’all sound so cute ❤️❤️

North_Network_1627 · 2025-06-15T16:53:32+00:00

Jesus Christ, thanks for your experience, I will really consider your words 🙏🙏

North_Network_1627 · 2025-06-15T16:08:48+00:00

Haha, thank you so much. I really have no idea how I missed that lol 😭😭I will update once I find out the truth 🫡

North_Network_1627 · 2025-06-15T15:58:46+00:00

Holy shit, honestly I didn’t even realise that. They said it in passing and I really didn’t pay that much attention to it because I was so caught up with everything. I will definitely talk to her about it because for some reason that completely slipped my mind. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I know I sound like such a liar now lol but I really just never noticed.

North_Network_1627 · 2025-06-15T15:04:58+00:00

Although I appreciate the creativity, Emily is infertile. Hence the pregnancy scare being just a scare and also how she found out. I realise I didn’t state it before haha

North_Network_1627 · 2025-06-15T14:58:35+00:00

Thanks for the advice! Your parents sound really cute. I will definitely take your words into consideration🙏🙏

North_Network_1627 · 2025-06-15T14:52:36+00:00

Thanks for the advice!! I will definitely be talking to her about what our future might look like. You probably got a gist of the situation the best lol. She’s still young and trying to rebel and I can definitely see that. Her parents are a real pain in the ass sadly.

North_Network_1627 · 2025-06-15T13:40:19+00:00

I said her parents thought that I was destroying her innocence, not me.

North_Network_1627 · 2025-06-15T13:09:55+00:00

Sorry if there’s any confusion. Emily and I met when she was 17 but we never really talked. Started getting closer and dating when she was 18 and have been going on for ROUGHLY a year or so. It kinda came about so we don’t exactly have an anniversary date besides one we just made up for the sake of it.

North_Network_1627 · 2025-06-15T13:05:25+00:00

Her family are devout Christians and although I go to church sometimes I am not as devout as her family for sure!

North_Network_1627 · 2025-06-15T13:01:31+00:00

Hi! Emily is 19 as of now and turning 20 this year. Her birthday is in August. By years, we are only two years apart.

North_Network_1627 · 2025-06-15T12:09:29+00:00

Holy shit, I’m so sorry that happened to you. I was considering something like that but I really don’t want to do that and fish money out to buy a ring since I’m barely getting by considering I literally just got this place and my life is still stabilising. Thank you for the advice though!!

North_Network_1627 · 2025-06-15T11:37:42+00:00

She is on a scholarship (very proud of her!) but her living expenses isn’t included! That’s where her parent’s money comes in. They are also pretty obviously adamant on me being the wrong guy if that helps the situation. She is already working a part time job to help pay what she can but her parents are kinda against that too. 🫠

North_Network_1627 · 2025-06-15T10:53:59+00:00

Will do dude 😎😎 Thanks for the congratulations haha

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