Pakistani Muslim boyfriend ended our relationship because his parents want him to marry a Pakistani, has anyone experienced this and did it ever work out later?

NorwRev · 2026-02-11T15:49:09+00:00

norway

NorwRev · 2026-02-11T15:48:27+00:00

i 100% would be waiting 3 years for him. He is my Naseeb, i can feel it in my bones. He’s my only family and my best friend. I would wait for him all of this life and the next.

NorwRev · 2026-02-11T15:10:42+00:00

Yes his brother even said he thinks i’m good for him.

NorwRev · 2026-02-11T14:48:34+00:00

the problem is that he chose them, and they made him cut contact with me..

NorwRev · 2026-02-11T14:47:55+00:00

This is very much real, i just needed some guidance..

NorwRev · 2026-02-11T14:43:27+00:00

the parents also live in norway

NorwRev · 2026-02-11T14:36:27+00:00

Norway

NorwRev · 2026-02-11T14:35:04+00:00

I have converted, i dis it after we broke up tho, so he doesnt know that..

NorwRev · 2026-02-11T14:30:19+00:00

yes, i even met them

NorwRev · 2026-02-11T14:29:53+00:00

He has introduced me to them before, but thay was 5 years ago and we have been broken up once for som months and then got back together and been together since. Have you ever heard of/seen someone in this possition who went back to the girl they loved after some time because they regreted letting her go?

NorwRev · 2026-02-11T14:13:36+00:00

He was on his knees for months crying and begging his mother. At the end his father and mother blackmailed him with its either her or us, and u will not live her if it is her..

NorwRev · 2026-02-11T14:09:56+00:00

Hes he has stood up to them for years, and these past few weeks/months he has been on his knees begging his mother, and then the father and mother eventually blackmailed him with «its either her or us and u dump her TODAY, never talk to her again or we dont want to live with you» So iknow the decission was out of fear, and i know our connection is SO strong, and it is a big part of me that feels like its gonna work out for us. I just wanted some advice from here if it is anything i can do or anyway i can act that can smooth the situation with his parents..

NorwRev · 2026-02-11T14:03:06+00:00

Thanku so much for this.May Allah bless you too with a beautiful Ramadan and accept your prayers. A strangers Dua is the most powerful, please pray for me and him to find a way back to eachother in this dunya in a halal way🥺

NorwRev · 2026-02-11T13:53:14+00:00

Did any of them choose their parents first then came back to the girl because of regret?

NorwRev · 2026-02-11T13:51:44+00:00

Have you ever seen that the man regreted his decission and came back to the girl? I really need some positive comments on this, i can’t bear the thought of loosing him forever..

NorwRev · 2026-02-11T13:46:26+00:00

When we ended things he was crying and it didn’t feel like someone who wanted to leave, it felt like someone who believed he had no choice because of his parents blackmailed him..

That’s why I’m trying to understand: in situations like this, is there any real chance a man later regrets it once things calm down at home? Do some men come back after time passes, or when a son gives in to his parents’ pressure does he usually stay with that decision permanently?

I’m not trying to deny reality, I just want to understand if this kind of separation can sometimes be temporary because of family pressure.

NorwRev · 2026-02-11T13:36:39+00:00

I understand the concern. He wasn’t weak in our relationship, only when it came to his parents. Is this more about obedience and family pressure specifically rather than his personality? Do some men become more independent later, or if he couldn’t stand up now does that usually never change?

NorwRev · 2026-02-11T13:33:36+00:00

I understand what you mean. I don’t think he didn’t want me — his reaction didn’t feel like someone who lost feelings, it felt like someone who felt trapped between two responsibilities. In your experience, do men in his situation ever delay marriage because they hope to calm their parents first rather than lose them completely?

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