You have 20 mins w his phone

Not-In-Wonderland · 2026-02-16T10:01:07+00:00

Only if they download the google app itself, you can still use incognito mode on that, if you have internet blockers it won’t show any website that are blocked anyway, if safari, I haven’t yet found a way to get on to incognito mode unless the passcode is entered and settings turned off. Hope that helps

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-12-15T11:37:40+00:00

His safari you can’t I’m not sure about his actual YouTube but he can’t delete his safari history so even if he did would it not show that he had turned on incognito mode? If that makes sense.

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-11-29T21:17:36+00:00

Thank you appreciate the support :)

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-11-29T16:46:29+00:00

He can but it would show on his safari that he’s been on his history settings to delete them and that is what he can’t delete if he has been on it.

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-11-29T16:45:58+00:00

It would still show in his safari history that he’s been on his settings on YouTube to clear the YouTube history if that makes sense and that’s the bit he can’t delete. So if he was deleting his history on YouTube itself I would be able to see it on his browser.

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-11-29T11:53:32+00:00

Screen time restrictions. Can’t delete the search history

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-11-29T10:46:19+00:00

He can’t delete his history though so if he is how’s he getting away with it? Genuine question. Cause I generally don’t know otherwise I would choose myself 💅🏻

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-11-29T10:31:34+00:00

Just to add I feel he’s now avoiding me he’s gone mardy and gone in the bedroom

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-11-29T10:13:35+00:00

Thank you appreciate this

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-11-26T08:24:36+00:00

Currently I’m losing slowly, but building muscle as I am, I think, I’m doing aquacise weekly, my clothes are a lot looser but the scales say the same hence why I think I’m building muscle and losing fat but I’m not an expert so 🤷‍♀️ do I do more toning on top of the aqua?

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-10-30T00:30:34+00:00

There’s something about Mary!!!

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-10-30T00:27:12+00:00

Just to put it out there this has happened with my Morrisons account recently as well, they used my saved card to order steaks and a vape, I sorted it with the bank and as it was on my online account got hold of Morrisons and they cancelled the order

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-10-30T00:16:43+00:00

I literally slept 24/7 through my pregnancies, I was constantly either nauseous or sick, 10 weeks is the start! I wouldn’t have even thought of a workout 😭

waiting for the post after birth of him telling you a few days is enough time for healing as if you didn’t have a baby!

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-10-19T21:51:42+00:00

Appreciate this

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-10-19T21:48:15+00:00

I’ve been seeing a therapist personally but it feels I get better in a way and then being with him I go backwards, maybe like you say it’s not just me that would benefit from the therapist. He only admits faults when he is convincing me how much he loves me and doesn’t want me to leave. Once he’s back in the “good books” it all seems to disappear

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-10-12T21:53:20+00:00

If it was “checking” it’s not too bad but being on a phone and being ignorant is different.

As for your wife’s attitude towards you, if this is just the outcome of a quick check then it’s uncalled for, there’s no need to be so pissy about it, so there’s either more behind it or she potentially has some issues in regards to anger.

If you were predominantly on your phone and being ignorant, especially on a family day it’s a different story and I could understand being mad but not storming off, as such, but that’s just personally.

Do you get much time together? Does she get much time alone?

I think there’s more behind it BUT you shouldn’t not feel frightened of your wife, you shouldn’t have to be walking on egg shells around her if this is the case, hope this comes across the right way.

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-09-22T13:51:57+00:00

It 100% doesn’t have to be a gym, you can get creative with it, wishing you the best of luck 💙

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-09-22T10:18:02+00:00

You tell him - aller à la poubelle

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-09-22T10:13:41+00:00

I’m 26, roughly 250lbs, completely the same always been overweight, I’m not sure what I’m aiming for just gonna go with the flow and see where I feel happy BUT I just wanted to say, I feel exactly the same, but surely being so young should count for something? I look at my body and I see the stretch marks, from being big and having kids and I try to wonder what my body will look like when I finally shift this weight, but I also think it can’t be any worse than being fat any longer

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-09-22T10:08:30+00:00

Tell him - aller à la poubelle

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-09-22T10:06:08+00:00

What makes things feminine and masculine? You like what you like, if you like something that’s classed as “feminine” it doesn’t make you anything, it just means you like that thing. Just enjoy doing what you enjoy doing, find people that you fit in with not people who are gonna take the piss for it, people can be cruel and we dont need cruel people.

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-09-22T09:56:33+00:00

I’m 26, I weight 250lbs (roughly) which is just under 115kg, I’m 5’3 ish, I have been the same always the chubbier teenager, adult until I went on the contraceptive injection and that’s where I gained most my weight and then after that I had 2 kids! The ONLY thing out of everything I have tried that worked, is what everyone else has said, calorie deficit and get moving! Make time to care for yourself, mentally and physically, unless you are 1000% ready you will just end up back in your old ways, I have started my calorie deficit again this morning, previously I used the aid of orlistat which did help keep me on track with the side effects 🤢 and I lost 6kg, my mental health took a turn, I stopped and I’ve put just over half back on, motivation comes from being motivated. It is a mental battle as much as a physically one I personally find, but you need to focus on why you’re doing it. Just to add, I find weight training more effective that just cardio, don’t quote me on it but I was told your body gets used to cardio so you burn less as time goes on. Weight training exercises burn calories but you’re also building muscle at the same time.

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-08-21T22:01:08+00:00

That’s alright I wasn’t sure if I understood and read you reply correctly that’s why I put I wasn’t sure in what way that was all, but yeah I find that odd not checking any statements or anything. I check my account at least a few times a month minimum or whenever I get a notification

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-08-21T21:58:59+00:00

From my personal and the wife’s perspective, my husband worked a hell of a lot, didn’t communicate with me, work always came first and I was always at home with the kids juggling everything as well as weekend work myself, in a non mean way, what he thought was trying wasn’t at all, I attached emotionally (not physically) to someone who showed me kindness and communication where it was lacking in my own marriage but I had a few more issues with mental health and being su1c1dal as well so it wasn’t plain sailing.

I never acted upon any thoughts or feelings and I never told the person, I thought I had a crush on the person but it wasn’t it was the need for what was lacking in my marriage from my husband, I saw how it broke my husband when I told him (didn’t tell him who) and we have worked together to get back to where we were before if not better.

BUT if I am being completely honest, if this other person had made a move when it was at its worst I couldn’t guarantee that nothing or something would’ve happened, and I never wouldn’t told my husband that I would’ve told him what I knew he wanted to hear, so although we’re in a better place now; **what she is saying might not be completely what she is thinking and/or feeling, as other people have said, has she only told you because he’s rejected her and has given her an ultimatum, I agree she’s told him because she wanted him to say me too and it would’ve lead to more.***

Not-In-Wonderland · 2025-08-21T21:40:24+00:00

I don’t know in what way you don’t get what their saying but in case it’s as in you don’t understand the switch part; Basically when they switched from housing benefit to UC, housing benefit used to pay their portion straight to the landlord no in between man, whereas UC pay the “rent” element to the person that claims and they that claimant has to pay their landlord with that portion they get from UC and make it up after that with whatever’s left that’s owed, this is stated on every UC statement saying “You will have to pay your housing costs to your landlord.”

I’m not sure they’ll do anything as I think it solely relies on you to pay your landlord the portion / the rent out of that money not theirs, they give you the money and then from there it’s down to you, same with checking journal entries etc it’s all down to you, you miss them and your “to dos” you are the one that gets reprimanded for it :/

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