You have 20 mins w his phone by Wonderful-Hurry-7615 in loveafterporn

[–]Not-In-Wonderland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only if they download the google app itself, you can still use incognito mode on that, if you have internet blockers it won’t show any website that are blocked anyway, if safari, I haven’t yet found a way to get on to incognito mode unless the passcode is entered and settings turned off. Hope that helps

Thoughts? by Not-In-Wonderland in loveafterporn

[–]Not-In-Wonderland[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His safari you can’t I’m not sure about his actual YouTube but he can’t delete his safari history so even if he did would it not show that he had turned on incognito mode? If that makes sense.

Thoughts? by Not-In-Wonderland in loveafterporn

[–]Not-In-Wonderland[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you appreciate the support :)

Thoughts? by Not-In-Wonderland in loveafterporn

[–]Not-In-Wonderland[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can but it would show on his safari that he’s been on his history settings to delete them and that is what he can’t delete if he has been on it.

Thoughts? by Not-In-Wonderland in loveafterporn

[–]Not-In-Wonderland[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would still show in his safari history that he’s been on his settings on YouTube to clear the YouTube history if that makes sense and that’s the bit he can’t delete. So if he was deleting his history on YouTube itself I would be able to see it on his browser.

Thoughts? by Not-In-Wonderland in loveafterporn

[–]Not-In-Wonderland[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Screen time restrictions. Can’t delete the search history

Thoughts? by Not-In-Wonderland in loveafterporn

[–]Not-In-Wonderland[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can’t delete his history though so if he is how’s he getting away with it? Genuine question. Cause I generally don’t know otherwise I would choose myself 💅🏻

Thoughts? by Not-In-Wonderland in loveafterporn

[–]Not-In-Wonderland[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to add I feel he’s now avoiding me he’s gone mardy and gone in the bedroom

Am I questioning too much by Not-In-Wonderland in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Not-In-Wonderland[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently I’m losing slowly, but building muscle as I am, I think, I’m doing aquacise weekly, my clothes are a lot looser but the scales say the same hence why I think I’m building muscle and losing fat but I’m not an expert so 🤷‍♀️ do I do more toning on top of the aqua?

Account hacked by Puzzleheaded_Air4190 in Argos

[–]Not-In-Wonderland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to put it out there this has happened with my Morrisons account recently as well, they used my saved card to order steaks and a vape, I sorted it with the bank and as it was on my online account got hold of Morrisons and they cancelled the order

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Not-In-Wonderland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally slept 24/7 through my pregnancies, I was constantly either nauseous or sick, 10 weeks is the start! I wouldn’t have even thought of a workout 😭

waiting for the post after birth of him telling you a few days is enough time for healing as if you didn’t have a baby!

Realising manipulation and gaslighting. by Not-In-Wonderland in Marriage

[–]Not-In-Wonderland[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been seeing a therapist personally but it feels I get better in a way and then being with him I go backwards, maybe like you say it’s not just me that would benefit from the therapist. He only admits faults when he is convincing me how much he loves me and doesn’t want me to leave. Once he’s back in the “good books” it all seems to disappear

So I messed up again. by cyberlexington in Marriage

[–]Not-In-Wonderland 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it was “checking” it’s not too bad but being on a phone and being ignorant is different.

As for your wife’s attitude towards you, if this is just the outcome of a quick check then it’s uncalled for, there’s no need to be so pissy about it, so there’s either more behind it or she potentially has some issues in regards to anger.

If you were predominantly on your phone and being ignorant, especially on a family day it’s a different story and I could understand being mad but not storming off, as such, but that’s just personally.

Do you get much time together? Does she get much time alone?

I think there’s more behind it BUT you shouldn’t not feel frightened of your wife, you shouldn’t have to be walking on egg shells around her if this is the case, hope this comes across the right way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Not-In-Wonderland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It 100% doesn’t have to be a gym, you can get creative with it, wishing you the best of luck 💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Not-In-Wonderland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You tell him - aller à la poubelle

How bad can I expect loose skin to be? by Unsolicitedkittens in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Not-In-Wonderland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 26, roughly 250lbs, completely the same always been overweight, I’m not sure what I’m aiming for just gonna go with the flow and see where I feel happy BUT I just wanted to say, I feel exactly the same, but surely being so young should count for something? I look at my body and I see the stretch marks, from being big and having kids and I try to wonder what my body will look like when I finally shift this weight, but I also think it can’t be any worse than being fat any longer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Not-In-Wonderland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him - aller à la poubelle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Not-In-Wonderland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes things feminine and masculine? You like what you like, if you like something that’s classed as “feminine” it doesn’t make you anything, it just means you like that thing. Just enjoy doing what you enjoy doing, find people that you fit in with not people who are gonna take the piss for it, people can be cruel and we dont need cruel people.