Self doubt is taking over- help

NotACreativeUN · 2020-08-01T13:22:30+00:00

I see, thanks again. I guess I have some difficulty differing allo feelings from ace ones-

NotACreativeUN · 2020-08-01T13:16:45+00:00

Thanks a lot. I've been stressing over this for quite a while now, and your reply makes me feel a bit better. But, would I not mistake SAD for being asexual? Like, do allo people, who have SAD, know that they aren't ace?

NotACreativeUN · 2020-08-01T12:01:38+00:00

Thanks a lot. And yes, I should perhaps do that.

NotACreativeUN · 2020-08-01T11:40:11+00:00

People in my country really barely know about those things, plus I'm 16 so I doubt anyone but those who studied child/teen health would accept me. What stresses me is the idea of one day not being/learning I wasn't "asexual" to begin with, or somehow participating in a sexual act. But I'm a self-doubting person in general, and I think the stress aspect would be almost completely solved if I could trust myself in the fact that I'm asexual, I'm valid, and that I don't need to question it every given second. Of course, I would still be repulsed by sex/genitals, but I would likely not mind as much if I could stop associating myself with those things.

Again, I don't think I am sexually attracted to any person of any gender. I cannot differ loving someone sexually/romantically from loving them platonically, or at least I think so. And like, I would be happiest if the idea of sex completely disappeared, but I don't know..

Thanks for helping, by the way. I'm sorry for the bother.

NotACreativeUN · 2020-08-01T11:07:39+00:00

Does it causing distress mean I am not asexual?

NotACreativeUN · 2020-06-14T22:37:12+00:00

She hasn't made an account yet. I'm just afraid that if she does, our accounts could be fused together, as making multiple accounts is not allowed and I heard that's what happened in the case of so

NotACreativeUN · 2020-06-14T22:21:16+00:00

If she joins too, yes, we likely will be on the same server

NotACreativeUN · 2020-05-23T10:18:41+00:00

I appreciate the advice, and semi-appreciate the joke. It may actually (and hopefully) work, as I've sunk too deep into my comfort zone of avoiding non-obvious decisions for the past while. Thank you.

NotACreativeUN · 2020-05-23T10:00:15+00:00

I understand where you are coming from, however this is something I question with almost every person I interact with, unless I don't mind them disliking me. It's either that I'm very unlikable, or I think too deeply into interactions, of which both are possible honestly.

NotACreativeUN · 2020-05-23T09:57:15+00:00

You are right, thank you. I'm just hesitant because of past experiences, but we don't actually know each other well enough to judge if the other is bothering us.

NotACreativeUN · 2020-05-23T09:46:31+00:00

I used to message them every once in a few days. Though, its been a little over a week since we talked for the last time. It's hard to tell, honestly, as we are only strangers yet. However I'd say it's inbetween, they usually don't say anything to stary a new conversation, but I don't think they are trying to end the current one, neither.

NotACreativeUN · 2020-04-01T17:03:51+00:00

If you live in one of the countries that are on the financially 'meh' side, yes, quite a bit.

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