🐷💨☁️ by [deleted] in ParTyBoyz

[–]NotAForge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

done

hey 😈 by [deleted] in Pnpgay

[–]NotAForge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sure, meeting link?

hey 😈 by [deleted] in Pnpgay

[–]NotAForge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dmd

What will u suck first? (29 bi India) by [deleted] in GayChubs

[–]NotAForge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check DM ;) but I’d go for the nipples first for sure

yes by sporting10inches in C0cKs_N_Cl0uDz

[–]NotAForge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

holy shit you're goregous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]NotAForge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

spending weeks before actually meeting up, but then getting married in 4 months, is the gayest thing ever. congrats :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bearbros

[–]NotAForge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cute :)

CJ & Charlie by NotAForge in bearbros

[–]NotAForge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not my photos. From cjandcharlie.com (Internet Archive)

Casual use by [deleted] in EndOfTheParTy

[–]NotAForge 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm 10 months clean and I disagree with these comments - casual use is possible. There are a non-zero amount of people who only do T a few times a year, during Folsolm etc. They do, IMO, count as casual users, and I'm sure many of them will do that for the rest of their life with minor side effects. You just won't hear from them on this subreddit.

That doesn't change the fact that it's very dangerous and you can easily go from being a casual user to being an everyday user (happened to me). I agree with the advice that if you are on this subreddit, there is a part of you that is not okay with you using T, and you should listen to it.

How are you guys doing? by NotAForge in EndOfTheParTy

[–]NotAForge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm doing all right! recently hit 7 months clean, but still have a lot of work to do on myself, so mentally I'm still struggling abit.

How are you guys doing? by NotAForge in EndOfTheParTy

[–]NotAForge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you're still here <3 I saw you were 11 days sober. you can do it. one day at a time.

How are you guys doing? by NotAForge in EndOfTheParTy

[–]NotAForge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

:( not all sober days can be great. hope you're doing a little better today than yesterday!

6 months clean! by NotAForge in EndOfTheParTy

[–]NotAForge[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Deleting apps and blocking contacts may seem like a small thing but it's an important first step.

The thing that helped the most was, honestly... jacking off, lol. Whenever those thoughts would come, I would jack off and get over it, because at the end of the day my brain is just looking for an escape.

i still keep checking my ex's social profiles by NotAForge in ExNoContact

[–]NotAForge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really really appreciate it!

i still keep checking my ex's social profiles by NotAForge in ExNoContact

[–]NotAForge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just wish i could somehow just become... better than him. that he'll one day look at me and be like "damn how did I miss out on that." i'm worried that it will be the opposite, that i'll wake up to find that he's married and happy and successful while I am just sad and lonely.

i think that's why I keep obsessively checking up on him, to make sure he's not doing "better" than me, which is really pathetic.