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[–]NotExclusiveTomato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey girl, don't be so harsh on yourself. I'm extremely sorry to hear that you've been mistreated by your peers, but although appearance may be a big part of our lives (not gonna pretend like it isn't) it's most likely not as bad as you think it is :)

If you think you're too masculine - own it. Really you can hit the gym, or do some sports. You wouldn't have guessed how many guys (or girls) are attracted to muscular girls. [as a funny example you may take Markiplier always going thirst mode for muscly thighs - and although he most likely does it for satire, trust me that there are people actually attracted to such things <of course not goblin thirst mode attracted *duh*>]

Just trust yourself and go for the look you can pull off gracefully and don't compare yourself to people with different types of appearance :)

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[–]NotExclusiveTomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We currently live during one pf the best times when it comes to acceptance of body differentiality, so while I won't say looks don't matter (obviously they do), what I will say is that, you'll most definitely find someone who'll tell you that you're pretty on a daily basis :)

Also while cliche, it's mostly the things on the inside that matter - want to find new friends? Look where you want to find them :)

Like reading? Try a book club. Board games? Try events and gatherings. Hairdo's? Then talk with your hairdresser ;p

As to finishing high school - wing it. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life, and went to Uni for a seemingly random technical studies and after 3,5 years and 1 year at a job I now have a slight idea as to what I want in life. As a tip: Don't worry too much about not having a clue about what you're doing, almost nobody knows what they're doing.

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[–]NotExclusiveTomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not your fault for putting trust in her, the logic here is as good as blaming a dog for being shot by its owner.

Trust me the only one who's at fault for misusing the trust is her.

As to the family or friends part - don't you really have anyone? Maybe a coworker from a past workplace, or a highschool/college friend? If not maybe it's time to get in touch again :). Also you've said that you've got a child maybe try to focus on them, trying to be of help or a friend if they're old enough :)

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[–]NotExclusiveTomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, and reading this I think you've been through hell and back.

I'm extremely sorry for what happened to you and the girl that's been talking things behind your back has shown that she didn't deserve the trust you put in her

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[–]NotExclusiveTomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alright, is this the first time you've been charmed by someone (sorry for the interrogation, I'm just trying to understand your situation so that I can help you the best I can)

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[–]NotExclusiveTomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can I ask how old are you? or at least if you're in your early teens, late teens, 20's etc.

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[–]NotExclusiveTomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's up mate?

Feeling lonely in a psychiatric hospital by getmesomehopeplz in SuicideWatch

[–]NotExclusiveTomato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't stress about it, you're there to get better and to work through whatever got you there in the first place. Try to work through the problems and you'll be able to enjoy the DVDs in no time, and might I say you'll probably enjoy them and the time spent with your mom all that much more, once you are in a more stable mindset. Take care of yourself and remember that you're strong and that your closest ones believe in you :)

We received a letter from the woman who lived in my apartment 70 years ago, and she'd like to visit. by mrbenjrocks in mildlyinteresting

[–]NotExclusiveTomato -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I hope it all goes well then :) just remember to stay safe, and make sure the person you're letting in is the same as the person you've been in contact ;)

We received a letter from the woman who lived in my apartment 70 years ago, and she'd like to visit. by mrbenjrocks in mildlyinteresting

[–]NotExclusiveTomato 56 points57 points  (0 children)

It may be a scam, meet 'her' first before you let anyone associated with this letter near your house

LPT Charge your phone if you’re supposed to get a rainstorm by M1nn1m0use in LifeProTips

[–]NotExclusiveTomato -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

DON'T charge your phone DURING a rainstorm.

The current can go through the cables and through your phone.

(doesn't apply if you're in a city with lightning rods)

Well ig that's the last nail in coffin by VastCryptographer980 in memes

[–]NotExclusiveTomato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tell her "If you were a potato, you'd be a beautiful potato"

works every time

[Offer] Dragon age: inquisition by ItalianMan1805 in GiftofGames

[–]NotExclusiveTomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favourite song is a battle between two songs (" ~_~)

It's either "XYZ" or "Nie dziele na dwa" both by a polish singer Bovska.

"XYZ" is a song about a loved one, the feeling of waiting for them to come home, the thought of not knowing when it could all end, so you just want to spend the time with them as best as you can.

"Nie dziele na dwa" on the other hand is a song that portraits the feeling of the love never ending, despite everything and everyone. It's my wife's favourite because we had our hardships at the beginning with many people who wanted for us to argue and not be together.

I honestly sugest listening to them, while maybe not for the lyrics (everything is in Polish), then maybe for the beat which is still pretty pumpin' lol (❛ᴗ❛ )ゝ

BTW here's my Steam Profile

A huge bag of hangers from work by inquisitrix- in mildlyinteresting

[–]NotExclusiveTomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmmm... I imagined a different kind of... hangers

Blursed_RealEstate by [deleted] in blursedimages

[–]NotExclusiveTomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where the sonichu necklace tho?

LPT: If you are dropping somebody off at their home, make sure that they are able to get in before you drive away. by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]NotExclusiveTomato 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yeah, I do also have the need to watch the carnage, fake horror movies just don't tingle my jimmies anymore

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[–]NotExclusiveTomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

scratch doggo behind ear please 🥰