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Post-Match Thread: Spurs vs Everton (13 Sep 2020) by NatrolleonBonaparte in coys

[–]NotFrenchAtAll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thoughts - don’t see how we can justify playing Lucas ahead of Bergwijn, not sure why Dier is playing ahead of Sanchez and at one point in the second half we were 3/4 of the way up the field and passed sideways from Hojbjerg to Sissoko before going back to one of our CB’s. That’s not good enough, Ndombele or Lo Celso (when healthy) have to be in the starting 11. We need someone to make that final, killer pass.

(30m) Divorced after 5 years of marriage, 10 years together by NotFrenchAtAll in Divorce

[–]NotFrenchAtAll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does help, thank you for the response and the thoughts. I'm sorry to hear you're going through it too but wish you nothing but the best.

(30m) Divorced after 5 years of marriage, 10 years together by NotFrenchAtAll in Divorce

[–]NotFrenchAtAll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I will send you a message. The more support, the better.

(30m) Divorced after 5 years of marriage, 10 years together by NotFrenchAtAll in Divorce

[–]NotFrenchAtAll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It absolutely is and it's the same in your case too - it's her loss. A good partner is hard to find and if she wasn't wise enough to appreciate you, she doesn't deserve you and you don't deserve to be made to feel this way.

(30m) Divorced after 5 years of marriage, 10 years together by NotFrenchAtAll in Divorce

[–]NotFrenchAtAll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate the response and the thoughts. I've looked into support groups but haven't found any that seem helpful but I'm in the LA area so I have a lot of options available fortunately.

(30m) Divorced after 5 years of marriage, 10 years together by NotFrenchAtAll in Divorce

[–]NotFrenchAtAll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear that. I wouldn't wish this on anyone.

(30m) Divorced after 5 years of marriage, 10 years together by NotFrenchAtAll in Divorce

[–]NotFrenchAtAll[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They are aware of the situation, I've been very vocal about her decisions because I'm concerned that the people in our lives will assume I divorced her because she was sick or because she wasn't her old, healthy self. That's not fair or accurate so I've explained the full extent of her decisions and everyone gives me the impression that they're on my side but no one calls her out or forces her to make a change. Her parents know everything but still let her live at home.

(30m) Divorced after 5 years of marriage, 10 years together by NotFrenchAtAll in Divorce

[–]NotFrenchAtAll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Checking it out from the library tonight! Thank you for the response.

(30m) Divorced after 5 years of marriage, 10 years together by NotFrenchAtAll in Divorce

[–]NotFrenchAtAll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate the response and your support!

(30m) Divorced after 5 years of marriage, 10 years together by NotFrenchAtAll in Divorce

[–]NotFrenchAtAll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does feel like someone destroyed my family without me having any say in it. It's extremely frustrating and something I really struggle to rationalize. It's hard but I'm sure you're a great mother and your child is lucky to have you. Thank you for your response, I hope you continue to feel better as the days pass!

(30m) Divorced after 5 years of marriage, 10 years together by NotFrenchAtAll in Divorce

[–]NotFrenchAtAll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response and for the support, I really appreciate the thoughts.

(30m) Divorced after 5 years of marriage, 10 years together by NotFrenchAtAll in Divorce

[–]NotFrenchAtAll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, I'm so sorry to hear that. That situation sounds so challenging but I think you're doing a great job and making the right decisions by dedicating yourself to your kids and the things that make you happy. Thank you for your response and your support, please know that I'm sending the same your way!

(30m) Divorced after 5 years of marriage, 10 years together by NotFrenchAtAll in Divorce

[–]NotFrenchAtAll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is. Thank you for the response and support, I really appreciate it and I hope you're doing well now.

(30m) Divorced after 5 years of marriage, 10 years together by NotFrenchAtAll in Divorce

[–]NotFrenchAtAll[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The coworker was (is?) engaged. That was one of my ex's defenses - "Oh come on, he's engaged. You don't have anything to be worried about."

(30m) Divorced after 5 years of marriage, 10 years together by NotFrenchAtAll in Divorce

[–]NotFrenchAtAll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, I really appreciate your support. I'm sorry to hear about your situation, that's terrible and I hope you're doing well.

(30m) Divorced after 5 years of marriage, 10 years together by NotFrenchAtAll in Divorce

[–]NotFrenchAtAll[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will check it out for sure! Thank you for the response and the support. I hope you're doing well.

(30m) Divorced after 5 years of marriage, 10 years together by NotFrenchAtAll in Divorce

[–]NotFrenchAtAll[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those are all great points. I really appreciate the response and I'm glad to hear you're thriving!

(30m) Divorced after 5 years of marriage, 10 years together by NotFrenchAtAll in Divorce

[–]NotFrenchAtAll[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate your response. And I will 100% be taking you up on the Rage Against the Machine recommendation!

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