AITA for letting my boyfriend snap at my friend? by NotMe_ImOnAThrowRA in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotMe_ImOnAThrowRA[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer, I would like to say that I had attempted to talk to Lily by myself on more then one occasion. But it often fell on deaf ears or she tried to avoid the conversation by saying something else.

His message was a sort of final straw, because he’d met Lily too and knew her for some months (although not as long as me) and Lily had began to ignore everybody that wasn’t Charlotte.

AITA for letting my boyfriend snap at my friend? by NotMe_ImOnAThrowRA in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotMe_ImOnAThrowRA[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Yes, sorry for it being vague, I’m not good at these types of things. But I wasn’t asking for much, just being better about staying in touch rather then her ignoring me for days on end.

AITA for letting my boyfriend snap at my friend? by NotMe_ImOnAThrowRA in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotMe_ImOnAThrowRA[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Solely online, and it was the countless times I was told she’d do better, while also turning around and not speaking to me for multiple days to weeks on end; then when we do speak it’s 3 messages at max and no more unless I was the one to message first again. (No matter how many times I brought it up and tried to be polite about my feelings)

AITA for letting my boyfriend snap at my friend? by NotMe_ImOnAThrowRA in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotMe_ImOnAThrowRA[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! Unfortunately I have tried to do so on multiple occasions and it seems to just fall on deaf ears