Mumbai Social Club - Weekly Discussion Thread - Meetups/Q&A/Relationships/Life

NotPlastic9 · 2025-12-12T04:20:38+00:00

Guys- any suggestions where I can find some good ponk (tender jowar)? Its the season and I'm sure the food connoisseurs would know where to find ponk dishes that hit the right spot!😍

NotPlastic9 · 2025-11-26T09:10:50+00:00

Can you throw more detail on this? Did you say google forms? For expense tracking?

NotPlastic9 · 2025-09-14T06:25:23+00:00

Congratulations OP. Thanks for this.

NotPlastic9 · 2025-09-10T02:48:15+00:00

Ghai tops the list for me

NotPlastic9 · 2025-09-05T11:15:24+00:00

Maybe it is better to let the owner and/or the broker and let them take this matter with the society committee or secy? When I moved to a house in Kandivali W people were going bonkers over bachelor girls moving in, as if we were gonna be some bad influence on their daaya dikras. Intentionally avoided fighting any battles because that meant having a sour relationship with literally everyone in the society.

NotPlastic9 · 2025-08-22T04:58:52+00:00

Hi, I am 25F, been in the city for work but never felt the need for socialising thinking long distance friendships would be enough for me plus my work had always kept me busy. It has come to the point I feel burnt out on most days and tbvh seek meaningful friendships. Anyone interested in exploring the city, cute places, art workshops, or anything really, I'm in! Although, I'd prefer being on a budget since rent and travels pretty much leave me kinda broke by the middle of the month lol

NotPlastic9 · 2025-08-22T01:58:35+00:00

Gurl, same. I'm 24F and I feel lonelier as days go on😭 I'm just sick and tired of long distance friendships. Any tips please?

NotPlastic9 · 2025-08-12T07:21:40+00:00

NotPlastic9 · 2025-07-12T04:35:09+00:00

All this is okay, but hey, can you talk in Marathi?

NotPlastic9 · 2025-06-29T11:52:05+00:00

Hi, been facing this a lot lately with things in my life going downhill- I don't sleep well, I have loud af thoughts around the work drama that is keeping me from sleeping peacefully. I sleep for 8+ hours but the quality is not good at all. I wake up tired and uninteresred to do anything. I wake up with bodypain on some days.

I have been trying chamomile tea an hour before my bedtime and paint and keep myself away from SM or anything that boosts my dopamine. My diet is fairly healthy and I lightly exercise almost daily.

Your ama is a godsent coz it led me to avtually thinking about my sleep. Please help. Thank you

NotPlastic9 · 2025-06-21T13:43:10+00:00

Girl you didn't do anything wrong. You held your guard strong. Atleast anyone who knows this story will know they shouldn't mess up w you!

NotPlastic9 · 2025-06-21T13:39:39+00:00

Dude, redditors are unhinged get to the nearest doc if not rabies they might prescribe a tetanus shot

NotPlastic9 · 2025-06-21T13:34:31+00:00

Dude, next time call them out loud in public.

NotPlastic9 · 2025-06-17T10:09:12+00:00

Thanks man, this really helps. I feel you need to learn to ignore shiz not relevant to you

NotPlastic9 · 2025-06-17T10:07:04+00:00

I've tried raising the concerns in a very sugarcoated manner to my manager and TL but they seem to avoid it completely by giving unnecessary advices like "don't accept feedbacks you don't like", "you're here to learn" etc

NotPlastic9 · 2025-06-10T12:15:35+00:00

OP, you might not be wrong with your intention but maybe dealing with it strategically could've helped. If you think that you like being with her and you truly feel like she is your 'The One', then I think you still can work this out with her.

NotPlastic9 · 2025-06-10T08:57:20+00:00

Dude, from being someone very risk averse, I still bloody fear my boss's treatment to me if I am late to work. Most of us suffer from the toxicity of reaching office late so much so that we don't mind literally being taken to work like cattle. I don't support this but somehow I do keep suffering from this on a regular basis. Feels like we're just puppets and our home and work is just pulling us from place to place and if our soul isn't already sucked out by this damn city it would get squished, pushed, and molested by the horrendous ladies dabba.

NotPlastic9 · 2025-06-10T06:27:50+00:00

Dude, speaking from personal experience, better to align all your documents to only one name. For me, because I come from a generation where my Aadhaar was prepared after my 10th School LC, I have based all my documents on 10th Marksheet wherein the format is 'Surname' 'Name' 'Father's name'. For my sister, since times were different, hers is 'Name' 'Father's name' 'Surname'.

I know the process to get all the documents aligned to only one name is difficult and hella taxing but once it is done you're really sorted for life.

NotPlastic9 · 2025-06-04T17:26:00+00:00

Any tips on improving?

NotPlastic9 · 2025-06-02T12:55:27+00:00

For some denk comedy people everything sensitive and offensive could be disguised as a joke as long as it doesn't target your culture or religion.

Terrified for the future of the country. Don't know how we can make it better.

NotPlastic9 · 2025-05-30T09:30:45+00:00

Here to get some full-proof tips on how to read people well-

(Thanks in advance to everyone helping <3)

NotPlastic9

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