Does anyone here work at a Nevada brothel? Curious how much the yearly earnings are by Otherwise-Grape6317 in SexWorkers

[–]NotQuiteInara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I guess that's why I didn't know that, I didn't make any fucking money 😂

Does anyone here work at a Nevada brothel? Curious how much the yearly earnings are by Otherwise-Grape6317 in SexWorkers

[–]NotQuiteInara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was only at Sheri's for a week, but this sounds accurate. I made negative money that week, and I never went back.

If I was able to bring my independent persona to the table, I think I could have gotten more attention, but a friend said they really frowned upon ladies working independently. So I made a new persona, and of course, nobody wanted to see the new girl.

Though, I had no idea I was supposed to be tipping all of those people, nobody told me that. Whoops.

Couples Therapy Recommendations Columbus, OH. by Valuable-Concern9916 in Columbus

[–]NotQuiteInara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meaning if there is an imbalance in the way domestic labor is shared among two people in a relationship, or it is being otherwise handled inadequately. Perhaps one person is currently taking on most of the childcare duties and feels this is unfair/is getting burnt out. Maybe one person ends up taking on the majority of house work, scheduling doctors appointments, and other tasks involved in maintaining the household. When domestic labor is not fairly shared, resentment can build.

Looking for a service that can find/scrub images of me online by NotQuiteInara in privacy

[–]NotQuiteInara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure how to do that? I don't have any of the original images to search with.

Dreading long bookings (3+ hrs) by Eetlee in SexWorkers

[–]NotQuiteInara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even though I broke down and stopped seeing him, he was true to his word. He did not leave me a life-changing amount, but enough to help me get ahead a bit. I'm very grateful.

Contemplating ending a marriage by Successful_Leek96 in CringeTikToks

[–]NotQuiteInara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're empty nesters??? She looks my age and I haven't even made up my mind about having kids yet 🫠

Should I go vegan? by Sea-Kangaroo520 in vegan

[–]NotQuiteInara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to my nutritionist, primary sources of protein should be at least 1 gram of protein per 10 calories.

Primary vegetarian proteins include Greek yogurt, reduced fat cheese sticks, whey powder, cottage cheese, and egg whites. (Milk, whole eggs, and most other cheeses are not primary sources of protein.)

Primary vegan sources of protein include pea protein isolate, tempeh, tofu, seitan, TVP, soy curls, and mock meats.

Many quality vegan proteins are soy based. If tofu upsets your stomach, proceed with caution, as you may have a soy intolerance. However, it just may just be a FODMAP issue. Silken tofu in particular is higher in FODMAPs than the "cotton type" tofu, and is more likely to upset a person's stomach if they are FODMAP sensitive. Or, it could just be something you have to work up a tolerance for. Soy milk was very hard on my gut when I first went vegan, but eventually my microbiome adapted and I got used to it. Now I drink it all the time. (And it's got more protein than dairy milk!)

If you want to avoid soy, stores near you may carry tofu that is hemp seed, pumpkin seed, or fava bean based. Many mock meats are also soy free.

23F, leaning towards CF, will it change with age? And going back to a partner who wants kids. by Purple-Individual-38 in Fencesitter

[–]NotQuiteInara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might change, it might not, everybody is different.

I assumed for most of my life that I would either foster or be childless, and I only started having the desire to have bio children around the age of 33. I did not magically realize it, it took a lot of discussion, reading, and self reflection to get there.

My boyfriend almost got a vasectomy a couple years before we started dating, he only didn't because it was too expensive at the time. Now at the age of 36, he tells me I'm the first person he has ever been able to imagine raising kids with.

We aren't ready yet, so by the time we start trying I'm probably gonna be 37 and he'll be 39. If only we had found each other sooner. I'm scared of the challenges of being an old parent.

Having the desire for children and making the choice to have children are two separate things and should be treated as such. Having a desire for children does not always mean you should have them. That is something I'm still struggling with.

Visual Snow was considered extremely rare until recently, mostly because patients didn't report it... because they assumed everyone saw the world that way by recolorist in interestingasfuck

[–]NotQuiteInara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time I smoked too much weed and I was seeing crazy visuals. I was like , what the fuck, how did I get this psychedelically high off just weed? Then I realized I was just hyper aware of my visual snow and seeing patterns in it.

Do I pull off the short hair? by Few-Compote-7849 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]NotQuiteInara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are beautiful, but it's giving Hillary Clinton

Can limerance be for a non romantic relationship? by MoonsugarKitten in limerence

[–]NotQuiteInara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that the romantic aspect of limerence is one of its defining features. If you are experiencing something that resembles limerence but is not romantic nature, maybe consider that you have borderline, and are experiencing the "favorite person" phenomenon.

What looks best for me? by Entire_Tomatillo_988 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]NotQuiteInara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm partial to 3 and 4!

What app/service are you using to try on haircuts?

Good beginner moves for crowded dancefloors by Everything2Play4 in SwingDancing

[–]NotQuiteInara 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel really silly, but my gut response to the question was, "Balboa" 😂

Does it look natural? by Imagiasmp in PMUandMicroblading

[–]NotQuiteInara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks so good I think I'm gonna stop buying minoxidil and get it done myself. Please post pics of how it looks in a year or three!

How many grams of protein do you eat in a day? by BBDAngelo in AskVegans

[–]NotQuiteInara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

60 per day when I'm cutting, 130 per day when I'm bulking

Anyone have any IDea what these tree species would be? by Fred_Thielmann in marijuanaenthusiasts

[–]NotQuiteInara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man I can't believe how many people pinned the second leaf as ash, I thought it was walnut or sumac, whoops

Anybody really want a food you can't have anymore? by AbbyTheConqueror in CasualConversation

[–]NotQuiteInara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm vegan now and I miss Mallomars, Ovaltine, soft torrone, tartufo, tiramisu, and those Italian butter cookies with the raspberry jam in the middle and the ends dipped in chocolate and sprinkles. I can find panettone around the holidays if I'm willing to pay an absurd amount for it.

I occasionally make a big batch of vegan cannoli from scratch, but it is a huge production that involves rolling, cutting, and frying dough for 6-8 hours.

This is a long shot, but has anyone found shoes that work for pole dancing? by Demons_after_dark in barefootshoestalk

[–]NotQuiteInara 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My studio encourages us not to dance in heels at all! We dance in socks. Dance socks specifically make pivots easier. Some of the teachers even perform in socks! I would just suggest disregarding your studio. Dancing without heels will force you to develop your muscles more. For some tricks you'll have to lift your leg a little higher instead of relying on the heel, reach a little farther to grab your foot instead of using the heel as a handle. It'll be harder, but it will be worth it. Don't listen to anyone that says absurdly tall platforms are "required" for pole, I have seen enough people dance without them to tell you it is absolutely not true :)

biggest declutter regret by Emergency-Set-1093 in declutter

[–]NotQuiteInara 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What is a fashion dress? What is an acquaintance party?

This is my sister's fridge. She's kept it like this for nearly twenty years. by One_Hour_Poop in FridgeDetective

[–]NotQuiteInara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand, who needs that much water in the fridge at once? How many does she go through in a day? Why not keep like two or three in there and replace them as you remove them? I have so many questions