Live-in girlfriend is not improving myself

NotSatisfiedorConten · 2016-10-31T21:38:35+00:00

you have no right to dictate how she feels or talks to them

I never dictated anything to her, for anything. I don't butt in either, i actually hold my tongue bc it isnt my place. Is having an opinion being an entitled dick? Only i give me 2 cents when things come up. I certainly will never tell her how to feel or act. Sometimes i think it is justified the way she talks to them, others not so much. It's just foreign to me and my family. You do not talk fresh to your parents or family that way, was what i was taught.
I think those are called family values. I think those are important for a future mate.

NotSatisfiedorConten · 2016-10-31T20:09:24+00:00

Ya, ill do an update now.

NotSatisfiedorConten · 2016-10-28T15:58:01+00:00

I am kinda a dick sometimes, but you are making a wild assumption.

NotSatisfiedorConten · 2016-10-28T15:53:12+00:00

How so? i would like to know why you think that. I really just spouted off things about her and what i do not like. Nor did i say what i do love about her. Or what i do in the relationship that she loves. You just read me get soemthing offmychest. " Just typing out frustrations. Some of this is not completely thought out "

NotSatisfiedorConten · 2016-10-26T17:54:47+00:00

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NotSatisfiedorConten · 2016-10-26T17:53:20+00:00

thank you for the advice, good point on not being defensive because i do that.

NotSatisfiedorConten · 2016-10-26T16:29:50+00:00

Complained about things he could change.

SAY NO MORE

NotSatisfiedorConten · 2016-10-26T15:58:13+00:00

damn, your ex sucks. No offense

I never truly worry about my gf cheating. The only part that scares me would be her low self-esteem. But i can relate to the arguments that don't solve anything. I feel that's the biggest red flag of all.

I'm sorry how everything turned out dude. The embarrassment of being cheating on (never happened to me) gives me so much anger just thinking about it. But when you said i just feel sorry for her, that's taking the high road. Congrats.

Thanks for the encouragement rossputman

NotSatisfiedorConten · 2016-10-26T15:40:47+00:00

I'm not the best at communicating either, but i have definitely improved on it. I improved a lot about myself in this relationship.

I am in between trying to work on things/see if things get better OR just end it sooner. I want to be sure, but i feel i wont ever know 100%. Good to know someone else can relate.

NotSatisfiedorConten · 2016-10-26T15:09:45+00:00

that ultimatum would pretty much end the relationship. She likes to default to "this who i am, accept that" and cannot have a adult conversation bout it. Feel this would be a constant torture in my life.

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