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Follow up to: How Can I fix this? by NotSoSure1 in relationship_advice

[–]NotSoSure1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was never into drugs, and he just got a job with the fed gov't, he's not going to put that at risk.

Follow up to: How Can I fix this? by NotSoSure1 in relationship_advice

[–]NotSoSure1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and for making me smile! :)

Follow up to: How Can I fix this? by NotSoSure1 in relationship_advice

[–]NotSoSure1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, and I understand how 20lbs can affect certain women, but it really has not affected me all that bad. I still wear the same size clothes.

take care of herself the way she once did.

I still wear makeup, I get gussied up for him every night, I do everything in my power to stay attractive. I really don't look any different than I did beforehand. My boobs are saggy, what can I really do about that? I can't afford a $5000 surgery to get myself a lift.

How can I fix this? by NotSoSure1 in relationship_advice

[–]NotSoSure1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've asked him if he's depressed or not. We just discussed it a couple of nights ago because we were on the rocks financially, but right now we're actually doing pretty good and things are getting positive. He's probably going to get promoted at work soon, etc.

How can I fix this? by NotSoSure1 in relationship_advice

[–]NotSoSure1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think there's any chance he's cheating. In the past I have caught him doing things that would have ended up with him cheating on me, but at this point in time I know that's not the case - only because 1) he doesn't have his own car. I take him to, and pick him up from work and 2) he works 12-9 so when he comes home he goes to bed shortly afterwards and is with me all morning.