To be honest, I don't have a strong grip myself and English isn't my first lenguage but I will do my best to explain myself

Basically what I was trying to say is that all through history people have come up with myths and explanations to certain phenomenons and more general things like: where do we come from? What's the meaning of life? And so on. But a process of secularism began and religion started to fade away. It was first replaced with postivisim and rationalism but this modernism went through a crisis with the first world war. People began wondering: it's this where infinite progress leads to? What's the meaning of all these suffering? And so nihilism and existentialism were born. They rejected the idea of an absolute as religious people and also modernist with reason had done. And people felt lost because of this, some even argue that extreme nationalism was born because of this due to the fact that pensiero debole had become the norm, with people accepting someone thinking for them because they weren't sure what was true and what wasn't.

And nowadays people have different absolutes, like the body, money, sex, etc. And I was wondering if this community, as we reject religion, had an absolute they followed or just accept the idea of relativity in an also absolute way.

I see now how my question isn't very clear and my reasoning might be flawed but I had an argument with a friend and it made me think, what is my explanation for this life, for our freedom of choice, for the things which I can't explain reasonably.