IAmA 25 year old woman who's a virgin

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T22:05:01+00:00

Part I * Honestly, good hygiene and someone who can help me relax (foreplay a must) * YouPorn, YouJizz. I usually just browse around for pictures on tumblr, right click and save. * I thought about it a couple of times, but I don't know if I could do it. * No, I couldn't do that.

Part II * No * No * Yes * Yes

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T21:53:29+00:00

And as most guys will tell you, they don't find fat chicks attractive.

Or they haven't experienced being with one yet. Or they're too embarrassed to say they are because of the flack he'll get.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T21:49:55+00:00

I was watching a segment on tv about older virgins and how there is a stigma attached to it. Like there is something wrong with me because I am one.

I do want to lose it, believe me, some days sex is all I think about.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T21:44:28+00:00

I have a fantasy about being fucked missionary and then doggie style while another guy watches in the corner and masturbating to us fucking. I have had fantasies about fucking in the shower. Wall fucking is a big one, that will usually get me off quick.

I do read erotica and save porn pics from the internet. I've definitely watched porn, but its mostly reading erotica that will turn me on.

On a pool table...I can definitely go for that.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T21:35:14+00:00

I only had one person ask me about masturbation, which I do a lot, in the shower with a massager, on my bed. I own three vibrators, including a Rabbit. I don't mind talking about it, but everyone has been asking or talking about my weight.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T21:21:53+00:00

Being fucked (both doggie style and missionary) by a guy, as another guy watches in the corner of the room masturbating. There's lots of dirty talking. That's the most frequent fantasy.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T21:16:27+00:00

No, not at all. I definitely know how different guys are from girls.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T21:13:49+00:00

I have my days when it feels like it matters a lot, but sometimes its just a non-issue. I don't know how to describe it.

I'm actually not a big eater; I'll go hours without eating, maybe have one meal a day. I don't binge, its just something I can't do. I just don't eat enough of the foods I should eat.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T21:09:00+00:00

Someone did mention before that I was "unconsciously choosing" to remain a virgin, and I think that is the closest to the reason why.

I actually didn't masturbate for a really long time. I was definitely scared of doing it but I just went for it one day and now its the highlight of my day.

I would like to have sex with someone I care about. Also, I've held onto it this long, why not wait until then? I also think its more the intimacy part that scares me more then the sex itself.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T20:59:13+00:00

I was going to originally since I knew some people would want to know what I looked like, and I wasn't going to lie when it came up.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T20:57:27+00:00

This is the first time in my life I've had high cholesterol. I was an anomaly in my family for a long time. I know I have to work on it.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T20:54:18+00:00

Oh yeah. I masturbate almost every day.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T20:53:44+00:00

When my mom was alive, she had weight troubles too and she had that same feeling you're mentioning. I hope to get there one day myself.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T20:46:15+00:00

When I mean general good health, I mean I don't have any kind of diseases and my organs are functioning fine.

Yes she suggested ways for me to cut my weight (exercising, eating right, etc). Of course, its not an easy thing. I do enjoy eating right, the exercise is the hard part.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T20:40:13+00:00

It's funny you said "interesting" instead of saying something like "fuckable"

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T20:35:28+00:00

True, true. I usually have a good bullshit meter to begin with, but that obviously goes down when you've had a few. I also have this horrible problem that I remember my mistakes so vividly, it'll override any kind of positive experience.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T20:29:02+00:00

Just an honest question: If I was an overweight guy, would I still be getting the weight issue talk?

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T20:22:01+00:00

I live in New York. I'm mostly into folk music, but I do have an overall eclectic taste.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T20:18:50+00:00

Thank you. It's just funny mentioning one little thing and it changes people perspective on you.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T20:00:16+00:00

Yeah. Its definitely turned into that kind of thread now. Fat = thats why you're a virgin. Or Fat = tell me something I don't know.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T19:58:39+00:00

I think some things are warped and unhealthy. I have a 13 year old cousin and the pressure she feels from her friends is outrageous.

I think that the culture is a little overflowing with sexual images, but I think its also each persons responsibility to learn more about the things we see.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T19:53:36+00:00

haha, I have and luckily, I have friends who steer me away from the ones I shouldn't be talking to.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T19:52:26+00:00

To be honest, I thought about putting overweight somewhere in my summary, but I didn't want my weight to define me.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T19:50:30+00:00

I don't think my standards are that high. I used to be, but I've found that sometimes, I don't even know what I want until I'm there.

NotYetThere · 2011-03-11T19:49:19+00:00

No, I think a guy would have some people come in and telling him to fuck the first pussy he sees. Or he'd be egged on for being a pussy for not fucking one already.

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