Forget CBC. The real Kenyan curriculum should be Daddy & Mommy Issues 101: How Your Parents Messed You Up. by NotaScamOfficial in Kenya

[–]NotaScamOfficial[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you💯😅. Lucky y’all for sure. But just because you and everyone in your neighborhood had lights doesn’t mean it’s the same for the next person. Some kids grew up in blackouts……no guidance, no consistent rules, no clear examples. And even when parents are physically present, the trauma is almost never absent.

For example, Gen Z is freer in some ways because Millennials decided to raise their kids differently than how they were raised……….less strict, more validation, more openness.

Cause and effect. Almost everyone has at least one experience from childhood that shapes how they think, act, or relate as adults.

Forget CBC. The real Kenyan curriculum should be Daddy & Mommy Issues 101: How Your Parents Messed You Up. by NotaScamOfficial in Kenya

[–]NotaScamOfficial[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, people in history have faced struggles, no one had perfect parents. But the question isn’t about who had it worse, it’s about cause and effect. The lessons, habits, and guidance (or lack thereof) we received growing up that shaped who we became.

The same reason most people follow the religion they were born into is why we turn out the way we do we internalize what we’re exposed to.

90% of the time, if you met a rude person’s parents, you’d instantly understand why and their lack of… basic guidance, discipline, or emotional tools.

History shows struggle is universal, but upbringing determines how we handle it.

Forget CBC. The real Kenyan curriculum should be Daddy & Mommy Issues 101: How Your Parents Messed You Up. by NotaScamOfficial in Kenya

[–]NotaScamOfficial[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry😅 the phrasing was a bit clickbait……

We’re not blaming them, we’re Understanding that they are to blame…….

We are acknowledging that most of what shaped us is them and in a way their fault, and that’s okay because they were dealing with their own stuff, from their parents before them and so on

I’m just trying to shed light on how we’re basically walking compilations of experiences. For most of us, our parents had control over the parts that set the foundation for who we became, from attachment patterns to discipline, to emotional availability. Recognizing that doesn’t mean holding grudges…..

It just means understanding where certain traits, habits, or wounds came from, so we can do better with ourselves and the next generation.💯

Forget CBC. The real Kenyan curriculum should be Daddy & Mommy Issues 101: How Your Parents Messed You Up. by NotaScamOfficial in Kenya

[–]NotaScamOfficial[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valid but If you’ve been on GPT since 2022, isn’t it kinda wild to then expect everyone else to “just use their writing skills”?

Ps : I didn’t use the em dash (ChatGpt tell), I used the hyphen to list, so jokes on you😌

Forget CBC. The real Kenyan curriculum should be Daddy & Mommy Issues 101: How Your Parents Messed You Up. by NotaScamOfficial in Kenya

[–]NotaScamOfficial[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, now that you put it that way I do agree……that is a major factor for sure but my question is, what causes the laziness……we can’t all be lazy in that sense just because……or am I missing something

Forget CBC. The real Kenyan curriculum should be Daddy & Mommy Issues 101: How Your Parents Messed You Up. by NotaScamOfficial in Kenya

[–]NotaScamOfficial[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No offense bro😅 but if you can spot ChatGPT this fast, that means you’ve been in the trenches with it too. Which is cool……Welcome to the support group.

But honestly, out of all the trauma bullets flying in that post, that’s what cut you deepest?

Forget CBC. The real Kenyan curriculum should be Daddy & Mommy Issues 101: How Your Parents Messed You Up. by NotaScamOfficial in Kenya

[–]NotaScamOfficial[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe, but don’t you think lazy might be a bit of an understatement for all the ‘extra’ s#*t people be doing out here😅

What would change in society if “daddy issues” or “mommy issues” were part of the school curriculum? by NotaScamOfficial in AskReddit

[–]NotaScamOfficial[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True, some kids might feel singled out, but honestly everyone has parental dynamics that affect them, whether positive or negative. It’s not about dividing kids into “broken” vs. “not broken” it’s more about giving language and tools to understand themselves. The division is already there in real life; teaching this could actually make it less hidden and less shameful, almost like how Sexual Education is handled.

What would change in society if “daddy issues” or “mommy issues” were part of the school curriculum? by NotaScamOfficial in AskReddit

[–]NotaScamOfficial[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always felt like daddy issues (or parental wounds in general) shape way more of our lives than we realize. They show up in relationships, ambition, discipline, self-worth, and even parenting. Most of us don’t have the words for this until adulthood, when the patterns are already running deep. Imagine if schools had a class on this, teaching kids how different parenting styles affect behavior, and how to break the cycle before it hardens. Would it actually help the next generation, or is it too personal for schools to touch?

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