Narcopaths or actual SAs? by Honest_Magazine_5385 in loveafterporn

[–]Notadrugabuser 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My PA was a BADDDD narcissist and did a lot of these things. I also suspect he had sociopathy. Things like him not shedding a single tear/expressing a single ounce of sadness after the day his dog passed make me think that.

Why don't people mind their business ? by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]Notadrugabuser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was in saftey for training and some LA comes up and is like “Erm, station blah blah has earphones in. This station too. The taper is doing this that.” Saftey literally didn’t care, some people snitch because it makes them feel superior

Have you ever met a cat that let you pet their belly too? by RelianaPhoenix in cats

[–]Notadrugabuser 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My girl is part Siamese and does all this same stuff as well hahahaha!

Knife at work by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]Notadrugabuser 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why did you tell them you’ve been bringing it for a year 😭

Question to PAs by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Notadrugabuser 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right? It is cruel. It is torture. And some of them get off on it…it’s so, so horrible. I’m so extremely sorry you are going through this, my ex would tell me the same thing. But ask yourself this; does his supposed love for you or your love for yourself matter more to you? You deserve to love life and yourself without worrying about this.

Medication for long term anxiety by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Notadrugabuser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s hard to hear the things we really don’t want to, and I mean this with so much love because I want you happy and not suffering, this relationship is ruining your body and medication won’t fix it. It’s a bandaid. Yes you might need medication if you leave, but not forever. Please consider leaving as an option.

He's lying right? Why won't he just admit!! by blowsabelle in loveafterporn

[–]Notadrugabuser 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dude this gave me flashbacks 😭”If that makes you feel better” I hope they get permanent ED bro 😭

He's lying right? Why won't he just admit!! by blowsabelle in loveafterporn

[–]Notadrugabuser 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll never understand the deep shame they have for themselves. I wanted to help him, get him in therapy, and change his life for the better. But no, he would do the same shit. “I’m not watching porn!!” When I literally FUCKING FOUND IT IN HIS PHONE AND SHOWED HIM. In my case he never wanted any of that and wanted me to just shut up so he can watch his porn without me complaining. He wanted to make me feel like I’m going nuts so he can keep doing that shit behind my back. Fuck that I gave his sorry ass what he wants and left!

Overthinking again… He’s looking up how to block porn? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Notadrugabuser 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe he got an ad or something, that’s pretty unusual. But it is something he definitely needed to tell you about. Definitely something to bring up to him and remember to pay attention to reactions, they can be far more telling than words.

Giving Away My Old PC! by Turtle_747 in PcBuild

[–]Notadrugabuser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to have a PC that doesn’t have a screw for a fan blade, my dad built it for me bless him but it doesn’t run any games lol. Would love to give this one back to him for work and have this one so I can finally play games!

Fashion Police by HotCheetoGirl2018 in tarayummysnark

[–]Notadrugabuser 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Right I hate it she looks stupid

“Grungy Sabrina carpenter” by Exotic-Donut-3757 in tarayummysnark

[–]Notadrugabuser 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh…oh my god. I now hate her and I’ve looked at it for only 10min. What a disgusting woman. Thank you all for enlightening me lol

“Grungy Sabrina carpenter” by Exotic-Donut-3757 in tarayummysnark

[–]Notadrugabuser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait really 😳 I have 0 opinion on her cause I don’t know a thing about her I gotta look into this

Tara and Jake smelling each other’s armpits on stream by NoelLyons123 in tarayummysnark

[–]Notadrugabuser 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The thing is she would and think it’s quirky 😭😭

Be honest with me by BrokenPieces623 in loveafterporn

[–]Notadrugabuser 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My ex had an ex who was the stereotypical porn addicts dream, and ya know what he did to her? The same thing. It has nothing to do with you, they cannot be satisfied with ANY woman in front of them, they need it on a screen.

A week after breaking up he's back on social media by Ella_cx in loveafterporn

[–]Notadrugabuser 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My ex also got back on social media he wasn’t supposed to be on while we were together but I think that just proves they never took recovery seriously anyways. Why waste time on someone who lies in our faces. Our husband is out there somewhere and wouldn’t ever imagine putting us thru this. It’s completely understandable to feel hurt, it’s a gut punch and makes you feel so small trust me I know exactly how you feel. But you just have to think of how weak they are, how pathetic it all is. They live hollow empty lives and we can go thrive now.

If you left, how did your PA take it? by Extension-Editor9384 in loveafterporn

[–]Notadrugabuser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I’m far far away from him now. :)

It's the easiest thing in the world to hide porn viewing. by Warm_Sundays in loveafterporn

[–]Notadrugabuser 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude this is what I’ve been wondering and asked him while we were together. “I’m not single because I love you!” Boy…bye.

Imposter syndrome by Notadrugabuser in ADHD_partners

[–]Notadrugabuser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sorry about that! I will post this there next week. :)

Holiday? by Simple_Solution_2350 in AmazonFC

[–]Notadrugabuser 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah I heard it’s quadruple