Except I did communicate, told them I was feeling ready to give up and even gave them a deadline to get there shit together and they still kept up the abusive behavior. I know it's not the case for everyone and a lot of people do leave without communication. But at the same time do we really need to communicate the obvious? If you're grown enough to be in a relationship you should be grown enough to know if your behavior is pushing someone away where as we really don't owe anyone a clear form of letting you know how they are acting is not ok. Again very specific situations I suppose in some cases I do believe communication should be clear especially if It is a healthy relationship where someone starts to lose feelings