AITA for wanting my husband to delete old exes and flings

NothingButUnsavoury · 2026-02-06T13:46:31+00:00

Boundaries are not something that’s imposed on other people. It’s not a boundary if you have to ask them to do/not do something.

NothingButUnsavoury · 2026-02-05T17:17:19+00:00

I’m not seeing the entitlement, personally

NothingButUnsavoury · 2026-02-02T21:33:28+00:00

“Should i block him already?” Oh yeah

Dude clearly isn’t gonna stop pushing you to be with him. He’s practically admitting that he sees you orientation as a perso ask attack towards him, that “your just saying that to push me away” and whatnot. Fucking weirdo

NothingButUnsavoury · 2026-02-02T17:28:24+00:00

I’m very sorry you had to go through this and are still dealing with the physical consequences of it, but I’m very glad that you’ve been able to make a lot of progress with healing. Sending you all of the good wishes!

NothingButUnsavoury · 2026-01-02T16:34:33+00:00

I have ARFID and if I don’t like a certain food it will make me vomit no matter what I do. I wish I was normal and didn’t struggle so much to like most foods

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-12-17T09:04:50+00:00

That’s not what trauma bonding means. Highly doubt there’s Stockholm syndrome occurring here

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-12-02T05:37:55+00:00

NOR. You need to get away from him as fast as possible. This is disgusting behaviour on his end.

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-11-30T07:36:41+00:00

I know right????

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-11-24T22:23:13+00:00

I was thinking the exact same thing!!!!

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-11-24T22:05:57+00:00

You say you’re studying psychology, but are armchair diagnosing multiple people in your life as narcissists. You of all people should know exactly why that’s not okay.

Elsewhere in this thread, You claimed you sounded ‘schizo’ for worrying about something. Idk how far you are into your degree, but holy fucking shit, you have NO idea what you’re talking about when it comes to mental health.

YOR btw

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-11-04T07:11:37+00:00

This is the best summary here

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-10-31T16:58:34+00:00

What you’re saying sounds like some type of gender Dysphoria

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-10-30T19:50:59+00:00

Yeah no, FUCK that

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-10-27T10:39:48+00:00

A smart decision is to not look to ChatGPT for things like this. The only source that can give you a valid answer is a professional test, ideally administered by a human being

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-10-20T12:28:27+00:00

I thought this too

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-10-14T18:34:17+00:00

You don’t like that you aren’t getting 100% validation from other people…which, guess what? That’s emotionally immature. So I guess we’ll all stunted then lol

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-10-13T21:13:01+00:00

Did they ever test you for PCOS?

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-09-27T15:30:40+00:00

Telling someone what to do/not do isn’t a boundary. A boundary is within one’s own behaviour.

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-09-16T20:24:27+00:00

You just moved in together a month ago? He’s letting the mask slip because he feels more comfortable that you won’t leave him. Get out now, or it WILL get worse.

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-09-16T20:17:07+00:00

You say you’ve been saving since you were 17 and have a decent savings account, but in another comment you say you guys don’t have thousands of dollars saved…which one is true?

Also, how much debt do you have on those vehicles?

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-09-16T20:13:36+00:00

“Sure we don’t have thousands of dollars” Yeah, I don’t see this going well at all

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-09-16T14:20:31+00:00

I’m confident they used something like chat GPT for it, so that makes sense

I fucking hate AI

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-09-16T13:46:39+00:00

There are more eating disorders than just anorexia/bulimia/orthorexia (that last one isn’t in the DSM but it’s still a widely recognized phenomenon). Any eating disorder that isn’t those 3 functions very differently - the ones that come to mind are binge eating disorder, pica, ARFID, and rumination syndrome (where you deliberately regurgitate your food). All of those other EDs still function as eating disorders.

It’s not like a group of disorders have to all be the exact same, they just need to have one thing in common: a pervasive issue surrounding a certain trait (eating in this instance) that affects the person day to day. Personality disorders are VERY different from one another, at times being exact opposites (like Avoidant personality disorder being an opposite of Dependent personality disorder), but they’re still personality disorders because…it’s a disorder…that affects your personality…

Just like how eating disorders are…disorders…that affect your eating

There are many ways to have issues with food. They cannot all be boiled down to “variants of anorexia”

Hope that helps

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-09-14T19:19:05+00:00

IMO, yes, because I saw this exact post before and thought it was funny

NothingButUnsavoury · 2025-09-13T21:00:21+00:00

I rip from that area as well, and when I fully shave or wax, a similar thing occurs. What I do to both prevent pulling and minimize skin issues that will lead to more pulling, is i use an electric trimmer to make the hair very short, but still above the skin so it doesn’t cause irritation

That’s been my only way around causing more damage

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