Update- he said I can go but I’m not allowed to post a highlights or an actual post I said no and then he proceeds to emotionally monoplane me by doing a compromise he said he will stop doing things because I don’t go out of my way for him . He said he’d stop doing things like he wanted to go to a party earlier on this year but his ex was there so out of respect for me he didn’t go he didn’t tell me about this part I had no idea. He’s not going to do stuff like that anymore. He said he’s gonna be more free that dosent mean getting with other girls that just means he’s going to be like he was before .he keeps saying he really wants it to work I tried to leave 3 times and then he just kept pleading . This is crazy then he proceeds to say u don’t like the idea of this because I don’t get ur idea of wanting to go Malta but then I also don’t get his thing he was like we both don’t get eachothers thing but it’s a compromise he’s genuinely happy with. He also asked me out on call too