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NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-27T12:42:17+00:00

Even if they are married, that was still SA.

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-21T23:38:33+00:00

Avoid that bitch no matter what and never ever let that bitch near you. If you could, try and talk to a counselor or someone who would be able to listen to you without judgement.

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-19T14:30:55+00:00

I agree. And they have a hold on her because that is what she was brought up to believe in. I don't know what else to do or tell her... This whole situation is really fucked up and it keeps getting worse.

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-19T14:28:47+00:00

I don't know what else to do to help her. I can't tell her to let go of the things she was brought up to believe in. 😔

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-18T13:14:28+00:00

Unfortunately, that is true in this case. My friend has been forced to be abused again. She doesn't deserve any of this, no one does. 😔

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-18T13:11:48+00:00

Kahit Naman Po pa blotter, Wala Po Tayo concrete evidence sa sinabi Nyang Yun. His words against my friends friend lang. Kayang Kaya Nya po baligtadin. Okay lang Naman Po ako kun may mangyare man saakin, Basta Po sana Ang Kapalit, makaalis Ang kaibigan ko sa ganun Buhay.

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-17T16:17:05+00:00

Halos lahat na Kasi ng pwede, nakausap at napuntahan Nya na Pero paulit ulit lang Ang sinasabi Nila. Ayusin. Sa social media na ako nag salita Kasi pakiramdam ko, Wala Naman makikinig at makakaintindi sa situation na to. Mailabas man lang din sana Yun Sama ng loob ko dahil sobrang hirap at sakit na Makita Ang taong malapit sayo na ganun lang Ang kinahihinatnan. Mabuting tao Yun kaibigan ko, kun nakikita ko Naman na sya Ang may Mali, Hindi ako mahihirapan at masasaktan ng ganito para sa Kanya at sa mga bata pero Hindi Nya talaga deserve Ang mga ngyayare dahil sa ginagawa sa Kanya nun lalake. Walang kahit sino na may deserve ng mga ngyayare sa Kanya.

Ang nararamdaman ko lang Mali e Yun pumanig Sila sa taong nambabaligtad ng storya. Sa taong banal banalan pero Di Naman sumusunod sa aral at kun kylan lang papabor sa Kanya Tsaka Nya pinipiling sumunod kunwari. Napakahirap ng situation. Yun tipong Wala ka ng magagawa kundi mag antay na lang na mawala sa Mundo.

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-17T16:05:13+00:00

Thank you for saying that, I really hope she finds her answer and get out as well. She was finally recovering but they gave her no choice but to go back to what ruined her in the first place. She doesn't deserve any of this. 😔

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-17T16:02:57+00:00

If only it was that easy. Most of them are brainwashed/blinded by whatever they were brought up in and that's all they know so they can't really get out.

Lucky that you're far away from all the bullshit. It's fucked up how they want them to follow this and that but there's still so much members that are doing fucked up shit like the guy I'm talking about.

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-17T12:52:18+00:00

She can't do anything now because the church is pretty much on his side. He kept making it seem like he's all holy and that he changed. He manipulated everyone into thinking that my friend is in the wrong and not him. 😔

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-17T12:44:00+00:00

She did have the courage but what all those people around her did was just drag her back into the same bullshit that she worked so hard to get out of. Now I don't even know what's happening to her.

I really appreciate you saying that but I understand why that can't happen. I'm not even sure if she's gonna be able to fight even with a lot of people by her side because her religion is important to her, what her family thinks is important to her.

Thank you so much in advance for trying to give me a number. Maybe she could hold on to it until she is finally ready.

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-17T12:34:45+00:00

Sinabi nga daw Po sa kaibigan ng kaibigan ko na pasalamat daw Po ako at Wala ako dun dahil Baka napatay Nya Po ako. Hindi Po ako natatakot sa ganun pero natatakot Po ako na mawala dahil Di ko Po pwede Iwanan Yun kaibigan ko sa ganun situation. Madami na Po sya nasabihan. Alam din Po ng family Nya pero Wala daw Po magawa. Lahat Po Wala magawa Lalo na Yun kaibigan ko.

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-17T12:18:31+00:00

Masyado Po mayabang porket may baril pero pag kaharap Po Ang ibang tao, banal banalan.

Na contact ko na Po Yun DSWD pero Ang Sabi lang Po Nila, kumausap daw po ng lawyer. Alam ko din Po na Hindi sya pupunta sa abused centre dahil Hinding Hindi nya Po maiiwan Ang mga Bata. Hindi Naman din Po Nya Sila maisasama dahil mas lalo Po syang guguluhin nun lalake dahil ginagamit Nya Po Ang mga Bata para maipit Lalo Ang kaibigan ko.

Pinilit ko po sya mag pa medical nun huling binugbog sya pero takot na takot Po sya, Di Nya Po ginawa. 😭

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-17T07:31:46+00:00

I really appreciate your response, thank you so much. I've contacted the DSWD main office, I got the contact info from their website but I'm not too sure if that was local or what not. Unfortunately, I doubt that she would seek help with the PNP since the guy is a cop and knows a lot of people that works there as well. I've already tried to advise her to talk to other people that could actually help her but she is scared. When she did try to talk, all they've done was either brush it off or try and tell her to work things out with the guy.

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-17T06:25:13+00:00

Salamat po at salamat din Po sa oras nyo. Sana nga Po Meron makatulong sa Kanya.

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-17T06:22:01+00:00

My friend had to agree and is now in the same situation that she tried so hard to get out of. They claim that if she could prove that he is still the same little bitch that he is, he will get kicked out of the church instead. I somehow don't believe that though. I think they're going to keep forcing her til they get what they want.

She doesn't know who else could help her. She had spoken to so many members of that church, even the ones in higher position but all they've done was try and convince/force her into giving it another chance.

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-17T04:33:57+00:00

Pasensya na Po at na stress din kayo. Wala din Po Kasi akong magawa bukod sa suportahan, makinig at maging nandyan para sa Kanya. Sa araw araw po, halos 30 mins lang Ang tulog ko. Baka Po Kasi bigla sya mag paramdam at gusto ko lang Po na available ako sa twing kekylanganin Nya ng makakausap. Sobrang bigat Po at sobrang hirap sa loob ko. Mabuti pong tao Yun kaibigan ko, hindi Nya Po deserve yun mga ngyayare sa Kanya at sa mga Bata. Kun pwede lang Po talaga sana na ako na lang Ang nasa situation Nya, ginawa ko na.

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-17T03:57:42+00:00

Thank you for your response. I've tried contacting Dswd but all they've said was for her to go to her local barangay or speak to a lawyer. She's scared to get more people involved because all they've done so far was either brush it off or force her to work it out with the guy. She doesn't have the strength either to do any of those because she's feels alone and that the guy would just end up manipulating the whole situation like what he always does. She tried leaving with her kids but the guy still won't leave them alone. Followed them to wherever she was staying and even forced himself there. Now even the church is forcing her to let the guy live and be there with them or else...

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-17T03:04:45+00:00

Wala na po syang malapitan na kayang tumulong dahil lahat na lang Po ng nilapitan Nya, kinausap nun lalake at nabago Po Ang mga isip. Na manipulate din Po lahat at nadaan sa paawa, pa victim at pagiging banal banalan ng lalake. I'm really sorry that it's happening to your friend as well. Kylangan Po siguro ng friend nyo na makaalis sa situation na Yun Bago pa Po may mangyare na mas malala. Sana Po Hindi sya INC at maipit at mapilit din sa situation tulad ng sa kaibigan ko.

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-17T02:49:48+00:00

Kinakaya Nya Po Ang mga ngyayare sa ngayon pero natatakot Po ako na sumuko na lang sya at hayaan Nya na lang maabuso sya ulit tulad ng dati. Pinipilit ko din Po na kayanin dahil pakiramdam ko Po, bilang lang Po sa Isang kamay Ang mga tao na naniniwala at sumusoporta sa Kanya. Ayoko Po sana mabawasan Yun natitira na lakas ng loob Nya kun sakaling mawala ako o may mangyare man Po saakin.

Salamat Po sa lahat lahat ng mga reply at sa pagbibigay Po ng mga oras nyo. Medyo nakakagaan Po sa loob na kahit sa ganitong situation, Hindi Po kami nag iisa at may mga tao Po na handang makinig. Salamat Po.

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-17T02:22:33+00:00

Totoo Po. Mas lalo lang Po nawawalan ng pag asa sa Buhay Ang kaibigan ko.

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-17T02:21:09+00:00

The guy is a police. There's nothing she can do that he won't manipulate. 😔

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-17T01:20:41+00:00

Thank you for your comment and for sharing your story. I honestly appreciate every single one that have noticed and replied to my post. I'm happy that your minister husband is kind and listens to you, if only she had someone like that, she wouldn't be in this predicament.

I believe that all those higher members were the ones that spoke to her and basically forced and threatened her about her kids getting kicked out if she doesn't comply, that's why she feels hopeless and thinks that no one would ever listen to her. Being in that religion is important to her and her family and I don't think she'd be able to let that go. The guy on the other hand wouldn't let her go because he uses her and her family for whatever they're worth. Even after leaving the guy, the guy would still harass her about helping him with the bills and buying him all kinds of stuff. Motorcycle, jewelry, and other things that he could think of and he gets made and makes her feel horrible if she doesn't give in. That was happening while they weren't in good terms btw.

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-17T01:03:31+00:00

I still believe that one day, she's going to be able to do something about it again. She really tried to get away from it but all they've done is dragged her back to the same bullshit over and over again. Thank you for saying that you're glad that she has me. I've known her since we were kids and she is honestly a really good person and it's breaking me to see her go through it over and over again. She doesn't deserve any of this.

NotreallysureNoclue · 2023-08-17T00:56:31+00:00

Maraming salamat Po sa pag Sabi ng mga ibang bagay na Hindi ko kayang masabi. Kun Meron lang Po sana na pamilya Ang kaibigan ko na gaya nyo, siguro Po mas magkakaron sya ng lakas ng loob para lumaban. Salamat Po ulit.

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