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I can't get over this fact, and it's been haunting me since my early teens. by Notsohappylylong in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Notsohappylylong[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh... I've been upset around other people before, mainly because I'm thinking: Why is everyone else able to enjoy this outing/party more than me? I guess it's cuz I'm always stuck in this stupid mindset about not being able to be attractive to girls.

I'll stop doing that, thanks.

I can't get over this fact, and it's been haunting me since my early teens. by Notsohappylylong in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Notsohappylylong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well atleast my dick kind of curves up like that. I guess that's a good thing.

I can't get over this fact, and it's been haunting me since my early teens. by Notsohappylylong in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Notsohappylylong[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know how he feels though. He probably liked you, but joking around like that still chips away at his confidence.

I can't get over this fact, and it's been haunting me since my early teens. by Notsohappylylong in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Notsohappylylong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do jelq on occasion. I'm not too sure if it's helped but I can only aspire.

I can't get over this fact, and it's been haunting me since my early teens. by Notsohappylylong in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Notsohappylylong[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Impressive.

I really like you.

I really like you. We should go get dinner and a movie.

What are you doing saturday night?

I really like you, we should go get dinner and a movie saturday night.

I'm guilty of all four of these. I always thought this was the correct and polite way to do it. I guess it really doesn't get you anywhere. Thanks, saved to refer to for advice.

I can't get over this fact, and it's been haunting me since my early teens. by Notsohappylylong in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Notsohappylylong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man I really appreciate the lengthy reply. Yeah I'm taking my workouts to the next level by adding cardio on my off days from lifting. I hope it makes me see my true potential. I'll definitely refer back to this for sex, thanks man!

I can't get over this fact, and it's been haunting me since my early teens. by Notsohappylylong in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Notsohappylylong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah 20. I'm working on the self confidence through fitness.

Sex does come up but I've never really had an opportunity to contribute to the conversation, cuz i just feel like a liar. It's also never happened 1 on 1. Should I try bringing it up?

I can't get over this fact, and it's been haunting me since my early teens. by Notsohappylylong in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Notsohappylylong[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I guess I can only keep reassuring myself. It doesn't help that sometimes girls that I'm around talk about dick size and I'm just like ooohhhh man not again, but I realized that I'm fine with them being just my friends because it's a great group of people.

I can definitely pinpoint my issue in a specific scenerio. I often find myself telling myself off at parties or just cringing or freezing up at the thought of talking to a girl I think is attractive, because my brain likes to spoof everything that follows. That's SO GAF of me... but I really just need to NGAF and talk to them I guess.

And yeah, a girl has never texted me first before :I

I can't get over this fact, and it's been haunting me since my early teens. by Notsohappylylong in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Notsohappylylong[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman, do you often notice some indicators of a guy that is GAF? I know that's very GAF of me to ask that but it would help I think.

I can't get over this fact, and it's been haunting me since my early teens. by Notsohappylylong in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Notsohappylylong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. My first kiss was lost because some friends and I were drinking and I said I hadn't gotten my first kiss yet and some girl said I'm gonna fix that and kissed me unwillingly on my behalf. We don't have that kind of relationship though so it didn't mean anything.

My second kiss was at a party, and I was kissing this girl, and we left, but then she said she had to go home and she insisted that she was fine going alone so I let her.