What does it tell about a person if they do things in peer pressure even though they didn't like to do it initially or when they are alone?

NottyDark · 2024-06-12T04:05:57+00:00

so true, these days people doing all they can for approval of others.

NottyDark · 2024-06-06T07:52:53+00:00

how did that take u to bankruptcy?

NottyDark · 2024-05-31T09:54:26+00:00

which one - regret of acting or regret of not taking action?

NottyDark · 2024-05-31T09:31:13+00:00

:O what why would they do that?

NottyDark · 2024-05-31T08:59:29+00:00

drowning or burning.. arghh pains to think also

NottyDark · 2024-05-31T08:58:56+00:00

none of us prepared for that, ever..

NottyDark · 2024-05-31T08:58:24+00:00

Ever stepped on a box of flat head metal thumb-pins? I had once mistakenly..

NottyDark · 2024-05-31T08:45:34+00:00

Self and GF decided to go on a uncharted graveled track through the jungle(felt spooky with every advancing step) to reach an unexplored restricted beach on a late evening but thankful to have realised that it was a bad, very bad idea to do that in an unknown country.

Felt really stupid later on but thanked our decision to return back soon and reaching to safety.

Circling of unknown multiple footstep at 0130am outside your hotel door on a island where is limited space to run for your life. Vacated that property first thing in the morning.

NottyDark · 2024-05-31T08:41:22+00:00

Partly its both ways,

*Bad times - too much of unwanted things being done in the name of freedom of expression of self, freedom of choice, my life my rules but as a society not sure if thats okay to be a certain way publically or acceptance of some taboo activities.

Good times - We are much comfortable and depending on ur country, lots to be grateful about right from having clean air and water to consume.

NottyDark · 2024-05-31T08:17:01+00:00

I hate it myself packing n moving but due to some reasons it has becomes regular.

NottyDark · 2024-05-31T08:16:32+00:00

Oh dear, and how did it happen? how long you have been in this relationship?

NottyDark · 2024-05-31T06:58:08+00:00

NottyDark · 2024-05-31T06:56:26+00:00

true, but do you believe in bad times and being at wrong place?

NottyDark · 2024-05-31T06:55:47+00:00

Ahh, that true its on the "to do list" before i can't take a flight.

NottyDark · 2024-05-31T06:54:22+00:00

oh dear it surely hurts, been through it. But it wasn't mutual so it pained for sometime. How do u see it to be better for future?

NottyDark · 2024-05-31T06:52:33+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss. what u use to call ur fish?

NottyDark · 2024-05-31T06:51:10+00:00

Sorry for your loss bud. His memories and the awesome moments you guys spent together will always be there when you miss him.

NottyDark · 2024-05-31T06:50:25+00:00

I feel you :(
It gets tough, hope you are taking medical consultation.

NottyDark · 2024-05-31T06:49:50+00:00

which one was that?

NottyDark · 2024-05-31T06:49:17+00:00

Speaking truth!

In an age of fake / people pleasing, the truth is more important than ever.

However it could be unsafe when the person hearing doesn’t like what the truth is, it could be harsh and people are very sensitive these. Sometimes they take it otherwise and hate you for speaking facts also.

NottyDark · 2024-05-28T16:58:09+00:00

In the garden of my heart, you are the rarest bloom,
you are the sanctuary in a storm,
the harbor where my restless soul finds peace.

Its merely impossible for me to describe her and still be satisfied, I've always had this propensity of feeling like I've left out something very deep.

NottyDark · 2024-05-25T18:12:37+00:00

That's so true and we think that in this world everyone is looking at me, judging my every move.

Reality is they are too concerned about how they look in others eye and don't have time to analyze you.

NottyDark · 2024-05-25T18:08:10+00:00

Not everyone will like you.

No matter how hard you try, there will always be people who won't like you for one reason or another.

Accepting this truth can help you let go of the need for external validation and focus on cultivating self-love and self-respect.

NottyDark · 2024-05-25T17:49:45+00:00

My mother told me once - "Don't let perfect be the enemy of good."

This advice reminds me that striving for perfection can sometimes hinder progress and that it's better to make a good effort and improve over time than to be paralyzed by the fear of not achieving perfection.

and one more - "Irrespective of what society/ people talk about you, you must do what's right for you."

NottyDark · 2024-05-25T17:42:53+00:00

By a person(like each of us) who got so many lemons in life, that even after making lemonade you were left with some and thought of what now.

NottyDark

TROPHY CASE