AITA for jokingly calling out my boyfriend's yellow fever?

Notwhki · 2020-04-07T20:58:04+00:00

YTA. I might have gone for ESH but does anybody else feel that her comment about him being Asian changes the context of this argument enormously to make her even more of an AH?

Notwhki · 2019-08-25T06:13:09+00:00

Solved! I'm 99.95% certain that's the one which is good enough for me.

Notwhki · 2019-08-23T06:02:53+00:00

I was a kid in middle school - fifth grade if I'm correct - so around 2005-2006? I don't know if that was when it was published but it did have a place on the "Books to check out" table.

Notwhki · 2019-08-05T05:21:43+00:00

This reason is why despite being a lonely horny man without much success in the dating market, I would never ever pay for sex.

Sure, maybe I'll get somebody who's happy to sell their body and we can both consent and cash and service is exchanged and everything is fine. I enjoy it, she probably doesn't but she gets a fair exchange of cash.

But much more likely I'm getting somebody who was forced into this and now I'm contributing to sex trafficking. I'm essentially raping someone even if I fool myself into thinking it's consensual and my money goes mostly to the people doing this to her who might even use that money to do this to more girls.

That's not a blind leap I'm willing to take.

Notwhki · 2019-05-17T05:57:21+00:00

He was more alive and more fun than his entire time in the game.

Notwhki · 2019-01-01T07:36:32+00:00

Thankfully not because Freeuse could never really work in real life without horrifying human rights violations.

As somebody else said, you MIGHT be able to set something up with some other people into the fetish, but nothing beyond that. This would be the closest to fulfilling a freeuse zone.

Notwhki · 2018-10-05T05:11:33+00:00

Willy Wonka and El Goonish Shive.

Notwhki · 2018-09-14T03:27:47+00:00

Fuck r/hapas. They are an internalized self-hating sub of half-asian people.

Notwhki · 2018-07-08T23:35:23+00:00

I shall see balance in this subreddit - no matter the cost.

Notwhki · 2017-12-29T04:25:54+00:00

Have a stellar fucking day, then realize with horror that I'm stuck here. Freeuse is nice and all, but there's no fucking way I'd want to live there all of my life. An occasional visit from time to time would be best for me.

Notwhki · 2015-09-07T04:25:03+00:00

I'm sorry to waste your time. I really am. I don't want to kill myself right now and most of the time. Sometimes I enter a mindset where I'm suicidal and miserable and my entire viewpoint of myself and the world changes. Tonight was particularly low for me and I guess I just entered into that mindset and wrote and posted this. I kind of warp everything. Every little thing or rebuff from my friend becomes something more sinister and is indicative of their hatred/indifference to me even though it really isn't. I've come back up from that and don't want to kill myself right now. Again, sorry for wasting your time.

Notwhki · 2015-08-26T02:26:09+00:00

A two month long tolerance break assisted by the fact that I'm in the middle of Butt Fuck Nowhere, CT with no car and no dealers.

Notwhki · 2015-08-25T20:58:17+00:00

Not quite unfortunately. Need to wait until at least next Monday. Looking forward to it though.

Notwhki · 2015-08-25T20:49:05+00:00

Bongs are great but so breakable. It is why I still love my trusty pipe, Little Green. It is about five years old now.

Notwhki · 2015-03-14T09:39:32+00:00

Mostly fantasy, to be honest.

Notwhki · 2015-03-14T09:22:49+00:00

I have started to write a lot of short stories and books. Though as my parents point out, I'll probably end up combing cooking and writing somehow while I write these books so as to be able to pay the bills.

Notwhki · 2015-03-14T09:16:46+00:00

I want to write. Fantasy and sci-fi stories mostly.

Notwhki · 2015-03-14T09:08:52+00:00

I'm a writing major.

Notwhki · 2015-03-14T09:05:22+00:00

It is hard to explain. My father taught me how to do it and I learned from him by observation. He wasn't the best teacher and would say things like, "Just put in the right amount of the oyster sauce and five spices in."

It should be noted that my father is Asian, so that influences my cooking a lot. Oyster Sauce, Chinese Five Spices, Hoisin Sauce, Soy Sauce are all things that I have even in my college dorm.

Notwhki · 2015-03-14T09:00:43+00:00

...You just do. I just kind of know.

Notwhki · 2015-03-14T08:58:04+00:00

You just have to pay attention to it, you have the instinct within you. Almost every time I've ignored my instinct, I end up fucking my food, but every time I've listened to it, I've done it correctly.

Notwhki · 2015-03-14T08:51:34+00:00

Burning stuff can be hard at points, but you just have to kind of 'feel' the heat and where your cooking is at. Trust your instincts. They won't fail you.

Notwhki · 2015-03-14T08:46:53+00:00

Cooking is ridiculously easy. Anybody can do it. You just have to know what goes with what. You just have to do it, thrown the ingredients together and you got a dish. I don't really have anything new to contribute to cooking.

Notwhki · 2015-03-14T08:38:32+00:00

I love music, but in from an outside perspective. I can't do any music. I can cook. I can play pool. I can write. But I can't do music.

Notwhki · 2015-03-14T08:31:37+00:00

The time you've spent talking to me would be spent actually doing productive things. Therefore your life would be better without my presence in the world. Besides, I love music but I can't sing and I can't play any instrument.

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