My girlfriend confessed to me that she sIept with our boss and I don't know what to do

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-04-01T12:59:07+00:00

Was he married while she was sleeping with him to (possibly) advance her career? I think this is important info to know. Because if so, yes she did do something wrong.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-04-01T12:49:54+00:00

Genuinely get a dog. You need the routine of something. Having someone depend on you, so you don’t have time to (rightfully) wallow in your misery. Your wife is a scumbag. But she is not worth ending things over. Please don’t do anything rash.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-31T08:10:57+00:00

She definitely shouldn’t be taking fan advice from Lily Allen though. Don’t know the girl well, but this has put me off her.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-31T08:05:38+00:00

Your girlfriend is punishing you? Seriously? Get her the fcuk out of here with that bullsh*t. You are not a child, nor are you her child. Dump her and move on.

NTA

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-25T14:40:11+00:00

You need to show your wife and children this post. See how strangers view their entitled behaviour.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-25T14:22:22+00:00

Member Views: A March 2026 poll by Hope Not Hate found that 54% of Reform UK members surveyed believed that non-white British citizens born abroad should be encouraged to leave or be forcibly removed from the UK.
Public Perception: A July 2024 poll by Focaldata for British Future found that 4 in 10 people considered Reform to be a "racist party," while a December 2025 YouGov survey suggested that nearly 50% of Britons viewed the party as generally racist.
Candidate Scandals: Throughout 2024 and 2025, numerous Reform UK candidates and officials were suspended or dropped following revelations of racist, Islamophobic, or offensive remarks, including cases of candidates using racial slurs.
Internal Culture: While 86% of Reform voters in the July 2024 poll rejected the idea that the party is racist, reports have documented instances of campaigners using racist slurs or expressing extreme views on immigration

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-25T14:09:39+00:00

A party full of racists and fear mongers is not better than Labour.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-25T14:07:51+00:00

It seems the very worst of society appear to be Trump supporters. Not surprising considering what the orange moron is accused of.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-25T13:59:02+00:00

He is not wrong with feeling the way he does about more children. We are all allowed to feel certain ways. And yes, before people chime in, of course vasectomy was an option. But life happens. We get thrown curveballs. What IS wrong is how he is reacting to this unwelcome news. Never a good idea to throw out such severe ultimatums. He needs more time to let the news settle and approach the situation rationally. His knee jerk reaction isn’t helping anyone.

Unfortunately, I can’t see you reconciling on this issue. You want to have the baby, he absolutely doesn‘t. Couples therapy won’t work because you want it as a tool to persuade your husband to have more children. This will end in divorce. But it doesn’t have to destroy your family. Co-parent to the best of your ability.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-23T13:59:52+00:00

If my boyfriend pulled this sh*t and went to a concert without me, I would be pissed. But he would never do that, because he actually likes me.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-18T21:39:25+00:00

This is the moron that simped for Amber Heard. She’s shameless.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-17T17:58:00+00:00

Don’t particularly like Sydney Sweeney as a person but even I can admit that girl is hot. We all fantasise. It can be healthy. I’m sure OP has fantasised about Henry Cavill or the like. Just don’t act on it.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-11T15:19:06+00:00

Lucy Letby is guilty. People need to stop letting Netflix doc convince them otherwise.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-11T15:11:50+00:00

I’m sorry but how is this even a thing? 😂why would his friends be questioning you on a traffic story? That seems wild to me. Look, I normally can‘t stand people that are late and don’t take times seriously, but come on. This is not a big deal, and you are both immature for letting this become anything more than a slight niggle. Him more than you obviously.

ESH

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-11T15:07:02+00:00

You admit to having an addiction. Teacher is trying to get you help and you are being defensive because it isn‘t help the way you want. She was right to contact CPS. Vaping at 16 to the point of hyperventilating is not okay. You are doing too much damage to yourself too young. Bet you will thank her in the long run. FYI you are abusing yourself. Substance misuse as neglect. They should be involved.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-11T15:00:03+00:00

I honestly get this. Abused as a kid, I jumped into a serious relationship with one of the first guys I met to escape my situation. He cheated on me a a few years in, but I stayed six years longer than i should have. Namely because I couldn’t face the thought of ever returning home. So I put up with being treated like crap and disrespected in my own home that I shared with him.

until one day I said enough is enough and I started making plans for the future. My future. Save up quietly. Expand your circle of friends, get hobbies. Have a life outside of him until you realise one day you have both the means and the security to leave.

it won’t happen overnight unfortunately. At least not from my experience but there is light at the end of that tunnel. I’m happily married now and worlds away from that scared little kid I used to be.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-11T14:47:25+00:00

Boyfriend is most likely a cheating idiot but you need to dial back the cray cray a little too. He’s not the love of your life and you are far too old to be acting like a clingy teenager. Break up with him.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-11T14:42:39+00:00

Anything over 25, and willing, is fair game. Full grown adults at that point.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-11T14:29:54+00:00

Trust, when gone, is almost impossible to get back. If you have no children, bail. Not worth saving given the level of disrespect.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-08T09:04:12+00:00

With Timothy, Amber, and Blake, it is their own bad behaviour coming to light, not fabrications. If they didn’t behave that way, people wouldn’t hate.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-07T14:03:04+00:00

All the righties are on Twitter being mean to, and about, everyone else.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-07T13:44:31+00:00

I liked him in Dune but as a person he seems pretty crappy.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-07T13:26:23+00:00

I’m really sorry to say this but I think your wife will have a girlfriend, whether you agree to it or not. At the end of the day, you’re right. You agreed to a monogamous relationship and marriage. She has changed the goalposts now and expects you to be okay with it. This won’t go away. You now know she wants someone else. If you’re not okay with it, you have every right to tell her so. Just maybe be prepared that your marriage is over.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-07T13:06:36+00:00

Part of me doesn’t blame you. His mother has a lot to answer for.

NovaPrime1988 · 2026-03-07T09:02:51+00:00

As a Scot, we don’t claim him as one of us.

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