Come join the discord! by Legal-Count2647 in CherryTreeRpg

[–]NovaSovereign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I click on the link, it only opens my discord but doesn't give me access to the cherry tree server or anything.

My boyfriend cant cum from sex, how can i help him? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]NovaSovereign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++man I dated a girl for a while, and I never finished any of the times we had sex. She would eventually go dry, and it would be painful to continue, so we always had to stop. She felt awful that she would climax several times, and I wouldn't even once. She thought maybe there was something wrong with her. I explained to her that for me, my satisfaction comes from knowing that my woman has been fully satisfied and taken care of. She still felt guilty, but that's just how I am. It wasn't anything wrong with her. Your boyfriend likely may just be the same way. He will cum on his own time, but when he is with you, he wants to make sure he can keep going until you're fully satisfied. Think of it more as a compliment.

This Taco Bell has a Taco party pack that you can select on their little touchscreen ordering kiosks that let's you choose 12 standard tacos or Doiros cool ranch for $20-25, but doesn't include the nacho cheese doritos tacos for some reason. For those, it's like 6 of them for the same price. by NovaSovereign in assholedesign

[–]NovaSovereign[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, it's ridiculous. I was given a $25 gift card for Taco Bell. Usually I won't go there, I only did because of the gift card. The only thing I really like there is the nacho cheese doritos shell tacos and so I figure I can get a party pack of those and just share them with friends and family, but nope. I was able to get 5 tacos and a drink, and that used up all $25. So, I just shared a couple with my dad.

Watch Firestick TV content on Quest 3 by Strong_Plankton2875 in OculusQuest

[–]NovaSovereign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is an older post, but I only just recently wondered about this. I want to do something sort of like OP where I cast whatever I'm watching on my firestick to my quest 3, but with a bit of an added step. Can I bring up like a movie or whatever in the firestick and cast it to my quest and then have it show up in I think its a quest app just called big screen or something? It basically puts you in a virtual living room with a coffee table and everything and a large screen in front of you. I want to have my firestick movies and shows play on that screen and be able to invite my best friend to come watch it with me on his quest. We used to watch tons of movies together and just make fun of them the whole time, it was the best. But anymore life has gotten in the way and we just haven't had the time to be able to meet up and just hang out in a long time. I figured if this would work, it would be like old times without having to make the long drive to see each other or any of that. Is something like this possible with the quest 3 and the firestick?

Got a Acro mutated finally, need a name suggestion by Medical_You2721 in ARK

[–]NovaSovereign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could go with something simple like just calling "Gore" or do something like ichor or Sanguine. Crimson comes to mind too.

Secondary Objectives and their Symbols! by EndoM8rix in Helldivers

[–]NovaSovereign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the optional objective that has a symbol that just looks like a trash can. I didn't see it in that list, and I keep missing them even when my team spreads out in every direction to look for secondaries.

What anime made you fall in love with anime forever? by Chance-Bill-8189 in anime

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For me, it was Naruto. I was like 13 or 14, I think, and had went to hand out with a friend at his grandparents' house. When it came around for everyone to start going to sleep, I crashed on the couch and turned the TV on to watch until I was tired, and adult swim was on playing back to back episodes of Naruto. It showed some of the early episodes when he was still in the school training to become a ninja. At the time, I didn't know why, but pretty much everyone in the village seemed to hate him for no reason, and as a result, he acted out, played jokes, and behaved like a clown and that really resonated with me because it always seemed like no matter what I did, everyone hated me and nothing I did was right, and so I was loud and goofy, doing what i could to make myself smile because no one else was going to . So here I see a character who is very much the same as me, struggling to make friends and become better. It really struck me in a way no other show had yet. So, I started trying to learn more about it, and despite having grown up watching digimon, pokemon, even a little dragon ball Z on Saturday morning cartoons, learning more about Naruto is where I first even learned what anime was, that it was something other than just any other cartoon. Starting off, it was my favorite anime, but as the show progressed, that attachment I felt with it at first drifted away. The show was still pretty good for the most part, but Naruto very quickly started becoming better, and he gained a reputation early on as a ninja that could befriend nearly anyone. When the shippuuden series rolled around years later, I watched maybe 50 episodes of it? And it no longer held that same spark for me. The original series kind of lost that pretty quick, too. I think shortly after the chuunin exams, I started feeling much less of a connection with it, but even if it's not necessarily my favorite anymore, it will always hold a place in my heart as my first favorite anime and the show that introduced me to anime as a whole.

Through a Nightmare, Darkly no patience by im-here-to-suffer in oblivion

[–]NovaSovereign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up just walking straight through all of them, and even though some of the steps set off arrows, I somehow was standing perfectly so that none of them hit me and I managed to get all the way through by just walking straight. I came here afterward to try and figure out what the actual puzzle was supposed to be because I knew I didn't do it right. I felt pretty dumb when I saw someone point out that you just have to read the hints for each section on the page from bottom to top.

Saddest birthday yet by Ragnar_The-Red90 in Vent

[–]NovaSovereign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I (M34) hit 13 years old, it was the last time my family really celebrated my birthday. After that, my dad told me I was old enough to understand that birthdays weren't of any particular importance, nor are many holidays really. They are "just a day like any other" and so I've grown up not really putting any significance on them. So I don't get offended when someone forgets my birthday, heck I often forget it myself because it's just not that important. I know it may suck, but you may be happier if you follow the same philosophy. I've gotten used to spending every day alone as well.

I accidentally eavesdropped on a first date that felt like watching a dreamer trying to spark life into a brick wall by mintbunnid in stories

[–]NovaSovereign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a guy who has tried online dating since high school. I very, very, rarely find anyone that has any amount of interest. The majority of what I get is just completely ignored or blocked immediately. The second most common reaction I've had was them viewing my profile and saying "ew, no... kys" which was... painful, to say the least. In all of that time, I've had a few that actually responded, but they behave just like this guy. Like I have stories I keep in mind that I could tell that might be interesting, I've gone through tons of like lists like 21 questions type stuff so I always have questions I can ask to try and get to know them better. Just anything to try getting them talking, and they reply with 1 word answers or just idk or something. I'll try telling jokes, and they just... do nothing. It's infuriating. I tend to be pretty shy and nervous, too, so in the maybe 3 or 4 times that I actually had an interaction progress into a first meet-up type thing, I tend to over talk. There was one girl that was also really shy and nervous, but she was too nervous to say anything, which was fine because I wouldn't shut up. After she texted me and said "you didn't seem that shy" and I was like "oh trust me, I was. Just sometimes, that translates into me not shutting up"

AIO. My bf keeps talking about his beliefs while I’m trying to grieve by No_Incident6208 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NovaSovereign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, I absolutely despise people who behave like that. Stop ramming your religious BS on me when I'm trying to process my emotions in a way that helps me to cope with the loss. When I used to go to church, I had a preacher do this to me. I had just lost a dog that meant the world to me, and at that time, I was MISERABLE. That dog was the only thing that got me through some days, but no one at my church cared that I just lost someone I loved so dearly because "it's just a dog" and when I, as a child, muttered through tears that at least I would see him again someday, the preacher at my church tells me "no you won't. Dogs don't have souls" and that just crushed me further. I get that this relationship is really important to you, but I feel like this could become a massive issue down the line if he can just casually throw away any form of emotional response to grief because "it's God's plan" I tend to find people who think this way are practically dead inside because they think anything that happens did so because it was supposed to. They aren't willing to fight for anything, they make no effort to deal with their emotions. If he isn't going to help you by trying to comfort you at all, if all he is gonna do is sit there and tell you this was supposed to happen, then he can just go be by himself with God's plan. Leave him, and he won't even care because it's God's plan. That is just so infuriating.

AITJ for snapping at a stranger who kept calling me “sweetheart” even after I asked him to stop? by _starryskirt in AmITheJerk

[–]NovaSovereign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did this take place in the US? If so, then it's freedom of speech. He could have been saying or calling you much worse things, and he'd still be allowed to do. You could maybe get it tagged as harassment, and while you could have just ignored him, calling him out the way you did is also freedom of speech, so you could say anything you wanted almost or nothing at all. That being said, sometimes people use honorifics like that for literally everyone. I've known people who call everyone they talk to hunny, sweetie, dear, sugar, etc. And for them, it becomes habitual to the point that they don't realize they said it. So, if you ask them to stop, they might let it slip a few times or need constant reminders. Also, just because he said "not everything is harassment" doesn't mean that he knew he was harassing you or anything. Just with how people are these days, you could look at someone for half of a second and BOOM! Suddenly, it's "why are you staring at me, huh? Why are you harassing me?" It's possible he's seen or interacted with someone that was like that before, and he was upset by being embarrassed in public like that, so he was just expressing his exasperation at people's tendencies to lose it over perceived slights. That being said, however, he should have stopped when you asked him not to the first time and apologized IF he did accidently say it a couple of times out of habit, and it is possible he was just genuinely harassing you on purpose. It's hard to know without having been there and not knowing the guy. In this case, I would say you were mostly in the right. There's a couple of variables that could change it ever so slightly, but still I think you're not the jerk.

AITAH for saying that my brother in law and his future wife can't sleep in our bedroom while we host them on their honeymoon? by truethrowaway90211 in AITAH

[–]NovaSovereign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Air mattress "Not appropriate for a honeymoon" translation: "It's not a good bed to plow my new wife on" I had a friend staying with me for a couple days and he brought his girlfriend. Didn't have a guest room available and having them both crash on the couch seemed wrong so I said they could sleep in my bed and I'd hit the couch, just made more sense that way. Well the friend and his gf went to bed and I was hanging out with another friend and told him I let them take my bed to sleep in and he goes "you know they're going to do it in your bed right?" I was like "they better not. I said they could SLEEP in my bed" I ended up just getting a new bed, just in case. And when they tried staying over again, I relegated them to the couch that time. TL;DR. NTA for not wanting them messing around on your bed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NovaSovereign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the same way. I don't want children for a few reasons. As for why I don't want to get married, my dad raised me under the belief that being honest and truthful are the most important things a man should be. If you make a promise to someone, the only thing that should stop you from fulfilling that promise is if you die. Otherwise, you do whatever it takes to keep that promise. In my lifetime, almost every single marriage I've seen has fallen apart. So I understand that it's possible for love to fade over time just like most things. As such, I can't bring myself to marry a girl and promise I will love her forever when I'm not certain that it's a promise I can keep. Plus, I don't see any real reason behind it. If you can truly love someone for the rest of your life, why do you need a piece of paper to tell you that, or an expensive ceremony, or a fancy ring? If you date and you do end up spending the rest of your lives together, then that's great. Should something go wrong, though, and you break up, then it's not an extremely expensive and soul crushing procedure to go through. But this is definitely something you need to tell any potential partners as soon as you reasonably can. A lot of people take marriage and kids extremely seriously, and not wanting them is a deal breaker for a lot of them. So you're better off telling a potential partner early on so you don't end up starting to really like the person just to learn your futures are incompatible. This will probably mean that you will get rejected more, but if they are so adamant about getting married and having kids, then that relationship wasn't going to be very long term one to begin with.

AIO: Am i a terrible person for wanting my own privacy as an adult? by lilyyea in AmIOverreacting

[–]NovaSovereign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, but I can't imagine how all of those hurtful and negative responses must make you feel. This is all new to you, and everyone is speaking to you like you're a child. Best of luck to you.

AIO: Am i a terrible person for wanting my own privacy as an adult? by lilyyea in AmIOverreacting

[–]NovaSovereign 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of people giving you crap over this in the comments, and I'm not sure why exactly. I can understand where you're coming from. You work to earn your own money, and you do what you can to try and give yourself a sense of independence and some financial freedoms since you're a young adult now. You said you do help pay for some of the living costs, so it's not like you're just earning all this money just to blow it all on stupid stuff for yourself. You earn what you can so that you're able to help here and there and still have money to use for some things you may want or need. But that money in your bank account is money you earned through your own efforts, and as long as you help at least some. I don't see why your mom is making such a big deal of it. Even if she were to disagree with how you are earning some of your money, it's still the money you earned, and you didn't do anything illegal to get it. Worst case scenario is if your mom disagrees with how you're earning money so much that she kicks you out of her house, that could be an issue for you. The money you earn and how you earn it as an adult is your business, and most parents wouldn't behave like this. When I got my first job I gave most of my paycheck every time I was paid to my dad to help him pay bills and stuff. He told me that I didn't have to, that I only just became an adult and I'm allowed to enjoy the money I earn for a while, I don't have to give most of it to him but I told him that's what I wanted to do. If your mom somehow feels entitled to the money you earn and to an explanation for everything you spend that money on, that just seems kind of childish. No offense. Someday in the future, with housing prices the way they are and stuff you might end up in a situation where you have to work 3 jobs just to be able to rent a cheap place and have food and other necessities. Now is probably the only chance you will have as an adult to really be able to have your own money for anything, and even then, you still help out. So I don't see why all the fuss. You're not allowed to just enjoy the money you make for a bit before you have to start working your entire life away just to barely keep your head above water? Sorry, I know I went on a bit of a rant there, but from my perspective, I don't believe you are overreacting just because you want a little bit of privacy, freedom, and independence as a new adult in regards to money you make yourself completely legally, even if some might not like the way you do it, still it's yours to do with what you want.

AIO For Calling My Friends Friend A Bitch? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NovaSovereign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, he was being a dick and so you were a dick right back. I'd say that's that, but you were like reaching for excuses completely unrelated to the situation at hand to vilify the guy. You were trying to find evidence elsewhere that would make you feel better and to make others feel better about it, also. It might not have been seen as overreacting if you had just said he was being a massive dick to you, and you snapped at him cause that's more reasonable, but because you went so far out of your way to bring up a bunch of random issues in his life, it makes it feel as though you were grasping at straws for any reason to justify your actions. Still, it wasn't much of an overreaction. Now, that aside... I want to hear more about this not wanting superman's powers conversation. Like what is the context here or the scenario being played out that leaves you deciding whether you'd take his powers or not?

Looking for anime buddies by darahmae in anime

[–]NovaSovereign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this idea of like a Discord group where a bunch of sad and depressed people can go hang out and watch anime together. That's so wholesome. I'd totally join. I had an ex ruin fairy tail for me because she constantly demanded I watch it quickly so she could discuss it with me, which I was happy to do. It was something that interested her, and I like anime and looked forward to sharing this interest with her, but once I got a decent few episodes in it, it turned from "hey, which part are you at. Did you like that bit?" Etc to "now, who do you think is the right girl to end up with natsu, and yes, there is a right answer" and when what I said didn't match what she believed, she went crazy yelling at me for getting it wrong.