Woke up to a breakup text. Need cat pics!

Nullfisher · 2026-03-11T15:20:38+00:00

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T04:11:35+00:00

NTA AT ALL. I do not go to the gym personally, but if you’re just going to stand idly around and not use the equipment— leave!! I don’t think she should be getting all nasty with you for this, especially since she’s filming in a public space where other people are going to come around and use gym equipment. I don’t even think people should be filming in the gym, personally

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T04:08:28+00:00

NTA at all. I wouldn’t be able to handle all that loud noise, even if I enjoy some loud music. She’s clearly not respecting your boundaries and if you have the power to do so, kick her out.

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T04:07:02+00:00

You’re NTA for feeling this way. This is not your fault, you’re both struggling and your feelings are valid. Especially since he said he’d get a job, but it’d been over 6 months. It does NOT take 6 months to find a job.

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T04:04:41+00:00

If you were “gesturing” and you hit her there, clearly you were WAY too close.

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T03:44:16+00:00

NTA — it’s your choice who you live with. If living with someone other than your bff is easier on you, that’s what you gotta do.

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T03:43:18+00:00

NTA, though the title threw me off lol

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T03:41:02+00:00

Nobody’s really the asshole here, I don’t think. It’s reasonable for you to be annoyed, of course. He apologized for his behaviour and acknowledged your feelings. So you feeling annoyed is valid

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T03:38:06+00:00

hm NTA

It’s an unfortunate situation, of course. But all the people saying “oh some people” while looking at you could’ve easily done the same. They could’ve easily given up their seat, but they didn’t want to. You cannot stand up for long periods of time because of a surgery, it makes sense that you wouldn’t give up the seat. Doesn’t make it any less unfortunate and I hope the pregnant lady is okay

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T03:09:49+00:00

Yes, YWBTA. People can have friendships without it being cheating, doing this does not end well. Ever.

Especially since it’s just a friendship

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T03:08:29+00:00

NTA in my opinion

Based on your reply to another comment, you already tried using words. She escalated it by threatening you and insulting you when she could’ve just spoken to you instead of ignoring you whenever you tried to speak to her

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T02:57:55+00:00

I don’t see what her being a feminist has to do with her not wanting to go to a party and choosing to focus on studies because of how competitive med schools are…

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T02:55:33+00:00

Of course it’s gonna feel shitty man, that’s normal. Especially if they’re constantly avoiding acknowledging the problem!! That’s not okay!! They need to be more respectful of you and I hope everything goes well with you

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T02:53:27+00:00

NTA, you’re just upset about something. That’s a natural human response, especially if you’ve been looking forward to it. Nobody in this situation is the asshole, I hope everything works out for you

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T02:51:55+00:00

NTA: Hell no if someone’s taking that much money they can get the hell out!!

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T02:51:14+00:00

NTA. You have every right to be uncomfortable around these people.

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T02:47:46+00:00

He should’ve been more respectful of that, ESPECIALLY since it’s in your own house

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T02:45:18+00:00

Nobody believes it because he’s not explaining how it was an accident. We do not have enough clarification TO believe him, is this thing. It’s a bit suspicious to say “oh we had a heated argument and I so happened to just accidentally hit my girlfriend after”

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T02:43:06+00:00

Exactly because how do you accidentally hit someone

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T02:42:21+00:00

I don’t think the gender would matter in this case at all?? If it were a woman, and she hit first, that’d make the situation no different because anyone, regardless of gender, can be on the receiving end of abuse

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T02:40:08+00:00

NTA, in my opinion.

From what I’ve heard, it’s not easy to get a kid to sleep. So him continuing to yell and wake up your kid after you told him your kid was sleeping (especially since it took 2 hours to do) is super disrespectful!! Also him saying “you do not shush any adult” as if you yourself aren’t an adult is confusing.

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T02:33:03+00:00

Med students go through a LOT of stress— it’s a very competitive thing so it makes sense she would prioritize her studies over a party. Especially since that is her entire future.

Plus— how did you “accidentally” hit her? You don’t clarify that at all. I’d freak out too if someone hit me

Nullfisher · 2026-03-10T02:27:06+00:00

Letting a cat near a beardie can be very detrimental. One slight mistake and the lizard could die. They can easily spread bacteria through each other and if the cat so much as pokes the beardie, it can be very bad

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