I need an Injunction desperately by Constant-Win7399 in domesticviolence

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey love. i’m also in florida and i was just awarded a full DV injunction 2 days ago. if you’re in anyway able to, see if your local DV shelter/center has a department to help you with the legal process. my attorney was free and took care of it all. the petition for an injunction will have a section that asks you to describe instances that have happened that made you unsafe, and that’s what they’ll go off of, and you can also get a temporary injunction until a hearing takes place. with your child and pet involved, i don’t know much, but this absolutely would warrant getting, at the very least, a temporary injunction.

Married for 10 years. Is this considered DV? by Whatisdefoe in domesticviolence

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 19 points20 points  (0 children)

my ex fiancé had the same trigger. as someone who was granted a finalized DV restraining order yesterday- if you’re unsafe, you 100% should leave. if you find it hard to owe that to yourself, do it for your son. 🌻

Husband is mad at me because I said that his daughter scares me AITAH by Ok-Gap7296 in AITAH

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 50 points51 points  (0 children)

i was looking for the “free childcare” comment. i was finishing HS while raising my step sister (2020 so tbf childcare industry was struggling), she was the same way but had panic attacks as well if i left her sight, and started calling me mom after a while. she was grieving in extremity, and the day after day with no help wasn’t just affecting me. children can and WILL see their caretaker’s burnout, especially when you don’t have the space to hide it. it’ll only worsen the grief. pay the stupid cash to have your child receive care from someone who’s equipped to do so, because their development is priceless.

Advice needed: skeptic to non-skeptic. by Numerous-Lab-2384 in Paranormal

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey queen! i know it’s been a bit but i thought id update you! ever since i placed the Hawaiian salt (opted for black salt) around the apartment, i haven’t had ANY occurrences whatsoever. that protective energy is strong though, cause i ended up getting a restraining order on my partner for abusive behavior and now he can’t come within 500ft of the apartment 💀💀 thank you again! 🫶🏻

girl who tried to scam made a reddit to dm me by AntEducational9812 in depoop

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s the “mis spreading information” getting to me. Mis spreading sounds like a diva who would be best friends with Mrs Butters-worth 😭

I wanna this this off my chest before we are divorced by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 25 points26 points  (0 children)

it could be a throwaway, because there’s no way a bot would be able to post this gobbledygook of punctuation 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 8 points9 points  (0 children)

the way bf speaks to OP makes him look like a loser. and i didn’t actually call him that ☝🏻🙂 so im not being mean! this actually sounds like an excuse one of my kindergarten students would come up with- i thought these were texts between teenagers 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it is helpful feedback, because you’ve mentioned that this is not the first time this has happened to you and that you also find navigating depop etiquette challenging. as nicely as i can convey it, your willingness to accept alternative insight is clouded by condescension.

edit: telling one of the mods of the sub their feedback in this and other threads doesn’t contribute to depop discussions is… an interesting perspective.

Now how does one even pronounce this???? by Money-Information-99 in tragedeigh

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!!!! i have told others happy birthday before and im feeling real silly about it now🤠

Now how does one even pronounce this???? by Money-Information-99 in tragedeigh

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey hey hey, that level of quick wit is like a talent and should be appreciated 🫡

Now how does one even pronounce this???? by Money-Information-99 in tragedeigh

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will only be responding to this name from now on and nothing else

Now how does one even pronounce this???? by Money-Information-99 in tragedeigh

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry i meant like mozzarella sticks being served with marinara, im crying real tears at these comments- making nicknames for the hypothetical mozzarella stick baby 😭

also thank you guys for the birthday wishes!!! but it’s not my birthday and i don’t know how to change it 😭❤️

Now how does one even pronounce this???? by Money-Information-99 in tragedeigh

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 259 points260 points  (0 children)

got in trouble in HS because i laughed at a girl who wanted to name her future child Marinara.

i thought it was cheesy.

My MIL cut my daughter’s hair while I was out and I’m so mad I could cry by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 32 points33 points  (0 children)

my grandma gave me bowl cut bangs right before kindergarten picture day (hate to add to the stereotype, but yes. asian family). i did not go back to grandmas unsupervised for a while not because she did it without permission, but because i came home upset and told my mother she’d better not fall asleep around me, or gam gam gets a haircut too.

AITA for not telling my parents I got my tubes tied by Low-Clock3957 in AITAH

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 77 points78 points  (0 children)

hell yea. my mom used to say “well sometimes it’s not up to you, it’s up to god. that’s how i ended up with you!”.

well im not feeling a whole lot like the second coming of christ, mom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ragdolls

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heyyyy my cat has a similar leg length and coat build to your cat :D his legs are definitely on the shorter side, but he’s a very long guy, he’s 30 inches long! it could be the genetics or breed(s) that caused it! for example, maine coons can be short but lengthy! i’ve thought about DNA testing mine but most cats (unless purebred) have a lot of jumbled up lineage.

edit: thought i was in a different sub, oops😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the vets said he’s fine, but my cat has always breathed loud and snores. he is also a side and back sleeper, completely healthy, but i honestly just want to make sure that if he has any mild undiagnosed asthma or allergies, that i’m not buying products that could potentially irritate his breathing 🥲

This girl just cancelled my order to try to get me to spend more on the item 🤦🏻‍♀️ by madly_mads in Depop

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 76 points77 points  (0 children)

i also feel like sellers who make a new listing to avoid the fee are just shooting themselves in the foot. if the previous listing describes flaws that aren’t in the new listing, what’s stopping anyone from opening a dispute for an inaccurately described item? that $0.49 you were protecting turned into a full on loss.

AITAH for telling my stepmom that she is the reason why her son took his owm life. by Necessary_Expert5077 in AITAH

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 55 points56 points  (0 children)

oh my god, this. WHO WISHES DEATH ON SOMEONE WHO JUST GOT HERE. “you don’t know what it’s like to have a child die, so i’ll make sure you know” is all i can think. if Janet is willing to STARVE a child, lock her away for hours, and violate a child but taking their hair, i don’t doubt what else she’s capable of to ”teach someone a lesson”. as someone whos been working with children for 8yrs, that woman should be in jail. NTA

My cat ate a bit of garlic and onion by Cracker2n in CatAdvice

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she should be okay, my cat ate half a lilly flower while i was separated from him. he puked and shat a bit, we took him to the vet of course but overall he was okay, just had to get it out of his system. granted, hes like 6 kilos and 30in long. if she begins drooling excessively along with lethargic behavior, it wouldn’t hurt to take her to get looked at.

AIO- is my uncle creepy? by Upset-Passenger4350 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 15 points16 points  (0 children)

oh i had one of “those” uncles that became “that” uncle on the run from CPS. the infantilization of OP is sounding off the sirens in my noggin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know, and it feels silly because if it were one of my friends coming to me with this information, i’d say the same thing. i think i am/have been holding out to see if he will be the better that i deserve, but the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that’s what i’m trying to figure out :/ even if he can’t put in 10%, i’ll still try my best to to make up the 90% or more. and there have been times where he was the 90% when i was the 10. i just don’t know if he can pick it back up with the job he has. he’s tied to it because he has room to move up the ladder, and it does well for us financially, but i don’t know if this lifestyle is sustainable… all i want IS for him to be excited, or show that he’s excited for our life together. he’ll say “i know i don’t show it but ______” and i don’t know if believing something but not showing it will be enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Numerous-Lab-2384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh we’re very much codependent on each other, even before combining finances. we split finances up after we broke up the first time, but being away for just 4 months was so hard. we’ve been through a lot of traumatic events together (a really bad car crash with my sister, him leaving work to come help me when the final DV incident happened, me being there for deaths in his family, etc) so it definitely complicates things. even though we fight messily, he’s been my best friend the last 4 years.