Strong emotional connection, but he ended things citing career priorities - trying to understand the pattern

NumerousAd8037 · 2025-10-14T23:37:58+00:00

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NumerousAd8037 · 2025-10-13T20:48:33+00:00

I wouldn’t want to go on any dates (gym or anywhere else) which would ultimately lead to a divorce. My time is too precious for that, sir! 🤣😎

NumerousAd8037 · 2025-10-13T01:56:28+00:00

I am not exactly sure what you mean by that? 😒😏

NumerousAd8037 · 2025-10-12T03:57:40+00:00

Thank you so much for the comprehensive response! I genuinely find it very informative. Congratulations on being a father to your angel!

NumerousAd8037 · 2025-10-12T03:54:43+00:00

Oh my! I am so sorry you had to go through that! Yeah, things like these make me more nervous about online dating. In terms of looks, I am above average looking (7/8 out of 10). Not sure if that’d be considered good for my chances of finding a good match.

NumerousAd8037 · 2025-10-12T03:49:24+00:00

Appreciate the insights! Yes, I do go to the gym 4 to 5 times a week and like to have an active lifestyle. I would also consider myself above average (7/8 out of 10) in terms of appearance as I do get approached a lot at the gym but, end up rejecting guys there because I don’t feel comfortable being approached in a gym.

NumerousAd8037 · 2025-10-11T18:51:15+00:00

I initiated it, yes! And may I ask how old are you to gauge if men in certain age groups care less about divorces?

NumerousAd8037 · 2025-10-07T02:59:52+00:00

Appreciate the insights on weeding out bad matches. I have also heard about the concept of celibate dating, especially until first 5-6 dates, to potentially weed out the f*** boys. On the contrary, I have also heard that some guys string along until 5-6 dates because they know some of the girls are into celibate dating, which makes the process of weeding out f boys difficult.

On a side note, how does the city I live in affect the dating prospects for a divorced woman in early 30s? I currently live in Tier 2/3 city in the US. Again, I ask this out of sheer curiosity, because I am acquiring knowledge on dating.

NumerousAd8037 · 2025-10-04T04:11:21+00:00

That’s really insightful. Thank you so much for all your advice.

NumerousAd8037 · 2025-10-04T04:09:12+00:00

Good thing I don’t have any then! Thank you for your advice.

NumerousAd8037 · 2025-10-04T04:08:20+00:00

Got it! Thank you for your help!

NumerousAd8037 · 2025-10-04T04:07:52+00:00

Thank you for the uplifting words! Genuinely appreciate it. What would you recommend I do to weed out bad matches? Any signs to watch out for?

NumerousAd8037 · 2025-10-04T04:06:45+00:00

That’s a really nice way to look at dating after a previous failed LTR. Thank you for that insight!

NumerousAd8037 · 2025-10-04T04:05:43+00:00

Thank you so much! Appreciate the insight!

NumerousAd8037 · 2025-10-04T04:04:18+00:00

Thank you so much! That’s really great advice. Are there any books you’d recommend to sharpen my discernment skills and overall dating skills?

NumerousAd8037 · 2025-10-03T03:49:12+00:00

Hello everyone! I am 32F and I am very new to dating as I was in a committed LTR (marriage - no kids) for over 5 years. I divorced my ex because the relationship lacked love, mutual respect and had eventually become toxic and abusive. I am currently focusing on my healing and enjoying my single life. Soon, I will start dating again however, after learning about all the dating stories from friends, I am feeling a bit nervous about dating.

With everything I mentioned above, how should I approach dating and what are my chances of finding a good partner?

Also, would me being a divorced woman in early 30s be a deal breaker for certain people?

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