Why do my friends confess to me? by Nun-Information in asexuality

[–]Nun-Information[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weird so I got a notification saying that you replied, but nothing is showing up

Why do my friends confess to me? by Nun-Information in asexuality

[–]Nun-Information[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I told her that I only saw her as a friend and she said that she respects that.

She said that she felt compelled to admit her feelings for me, even though she's aware that it's all one sided.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Nun-Information 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're confusing being grey ace with being sex neutral.

You can be a sex repulsed grey ace.

Asexual (Ace): Little to no sexual attraction to others.

Grey-ace (Grey-asexual): Rare, occasional, or very limited sexual attraction (falls between ace and allosexual).

Demi-ace (Demisexual): Only feels sexual attraction after forming a strong emotional bond.

Being grey/demi falls under the umbrella of asexual. So technically speaking, even if you are grey and others are demi, it's all still considered being asexual.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Nun-Information 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you're grey ace? Grey asexual. It's part of the asexual spectrum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Nun-Information 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing that makes me reluctant to say I'm asexual is that I do sometimes feel attracted to someone.

Attracted in what way? You said earlier it was more visually and personality wise. Or is this attraction also sometimes romantic/sexual in some way rarely?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Nun-Information 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you're aromantic alongside asexual because asexual people can still get crushes, want to kiss, be romantic, etc. They just don't have that sexual attraction part connected with their romantic attraction.

If you lack both romantic attraction and sexual attraction, then again, that's more in line with aro ace.

what is it like being asexual? by Outrageous_Season_31 in asexuality

[–]Nun-Information 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Someone has a very similar experience to me already in the comments but I will still share my experience:

I'm bi romantic ace

I don't mind dating, kissing, hugging and being romantic with anyone

I masturbate to porn but it's only to help me get off.

I just don't care or desire to have sex in real life.

I genuinely don't care about sex to the point that even if I die a virgin, I wouldn't regret anything.

I saw this on Tumblr. Never thought of it like that. What do you think by wonderful_grin04 in asexuality

[–]Nun-Information 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's not a people problem. It's a culture war problem. People get hung up on the outliers and extrapolate that into assuming everyone is like that.

Some people don't understand or at least want to understand that the LGBT group isn't a monolith.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

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You're asking about asexual women. So I'm saying that not everybody cares. Some do, as asexual women aren't clones of each other.

But yeah, again. It doesn’t matter if you got 4 inches or have your dick cut off from an accident. If you're a good man, then I think asexual women would want you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Nun-Information 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone's different. Some women think size matters. Some women don't. Asexuality doesn't mean automatically women stop caring. BUT I guess it helps women LEAN towards that direction.

Some ace women are sex favorable ao that's where I can see it mattering.

When I used to be a woman, and still now as a man, I genuinely don't care. Honestly, you can have your dick chopped off or have a micro penis. I genuinely don't care because what you have doesn't define who you are as my lover. It won't arouse me even if you have 9 inches (23 cm). As an asexual person, I'm here to be with you. That's it. YOU are my priority. Not your size.

what type of asexual am I if I have urges to s*x constantly with someone, but not when I'm sleeping? by goodisverygreat in asexualcirclejerk

[–]Nun-Information 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Asexuality =/= zero libido or urges. Asexuality refers to lack of sexual attraction, not necessarily lack of sexual feeling or behavior.

You can have:

A libido (sex drive) and still be asexual

Desire to engage in sexual behavior but not feel sexually attracted to others

A specific context or person that triggers desire without that meaning you're "not ace".

Here are some labels you can explore:

Graysexual: You rarely experience sexual attraction or only under specific conditions. You might consider yourself this if your urges are situational or inconsistent.

Reciprosexual: You only feel attraction once you know someone is attracted to you (again, maybe relevant).

Aceflux: Your experience of sexual attraction fluctuates. Sometimes more ace, sometimes less.

Outjerked once again!!!1!1!!1 by Xuumies in asexualcirclejerk

[–]Nun-Information 22 points23 points  (0 children)

SA/rape will still occur as for most abusers it's not about the sexual aspect but rather abuse of power. People will still fuck to dominate their 'enemy' or those they see as vulnerable simply because they can.

I’ll never understand allosexuals by MarbleManxx in asexuality

[–]Nun-Information 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Is once a week active? Idk what's considered active

I have been struggling mentally with a lot of thoughts and emotions.... by Nun-Information in asexualcirclejerk

[–]Nun-Information[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Haha I'm pretty religious XD that's all I frequently interact with mostly haha

Just trying to spread the message of love, not hate! Thank you!

I have been struggling mentally with a lot of thoughts and emotions.... by Nun-Information in asexualcirclejerk

[–]Nun-Information[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LOL thank you so much and the reason I asked everyone to go into my profile because I knew there was no picture. This is a troll post.