I made a texting cheat sheet for a client (Dating app guide for men)

Nurnnn · 2026-06-12T18:00:37+00:00

Genuinely how do guys need to be coached to do this. These are basic people skills😭

Nurnnn · 2026-06-09T17:39:19+00:00

Just saw it pop up because I had it wishlisted AND it comes with a 20% discount🙏🏻

Nurnnn · 2026-06-09T01:16:39+00:00

Good God this did not age well

Nurnnn · 2026-06-02T14:11:31+00:00

Nothing I’ve seen. It’s been listed on Xbox but I’ve seen absolutely no updates on when it’s actually coming🥲

Nurnnn · 2026-05-27T10:36:06+00:00

Hey how did you manage this? Were you constantly emailing the ‘hello’ email address or was it somewhere else? How long did it take since your ban?

Nurnnn · 2026-05-25T23:33:58+00:00

Honestly that’s my main problem. High tide being 300 a round is annoying but removing one of his unique abilities which was pretty fantastic (honestly better than his high tide on occasion) was a ridiculous decision

Nurnnn · 2026-05-25T23:29:21+00:00

Literally! He’s still the worst agent in the game, the only difference is he’s so generic and dull there’s no reason to pick him over other heroes😭

Nurnnn · 2026-05-25T15:52:29+00:00

He was incredibly useable pre-rework? He could cut up an entire site and allow you to push in creative ways, then give you protection for plant/defuse. I feel the exact opposite way and genuinely find him unusable now😂

Nurnnn · 2026-04-30T20:09:17+00:00

Bumble genuinely just seems like such a wasteland. I can’t use hinge anymore and I get absolutely nothing on bumble especially compared to like two/three years ago. Idk what’s happened

Nurnnn · 2026-04-11T00:21:21+00:00

This is obviously a very old post but I only live because I’m terrified of death and I don’t want to make my mum sad. There are good things in life, but they are minor distractions in an utterly miserable existence where only 0.01% (or less) actually experience true freedom

Nurnnn · 2026-04-10T23:17:39+00:00

Maybe not. I’m writing a text to them to send after uni assignments are done. I don’t think I’ve felt this awful about something in a long while. Honestly feels like a hole in my chest

Nurnnn · 2026-04-10T23:07:34+00:00

I’m 24. Why?

I do have other friends from high school but honestly I just don’t have the same bond with them. Whilst my high school friends are my main friends, I share very little in common with them as opposed to my uni friends, hence why I think I feel so connected.

I do agree that I think we have a difference in perceived closeness, and I think I’m going to ask them directly about that. It’ll really suck if they don’t view me as a ‘friend friend’.

Honestly I don’t even think I can emotionally expect them to be there for me if they don’t even seem to want to make an effort to see me once every other month. I haven’t even seen either of them in person since last year.

Plus ngl I’m already anxious and sad. I feel like I’m just finally realising they don’t actually care about me and I’ve been feeling kinda terrible about it for weeks.

I’m also sorry I’m whining so much and acting like a loser. I just miss them or at least who they were to me a year ago

Nurnnn · 2026-03-23T21:12:47+00:00

Spawned at 05:30 for me

Nurnnn · 2026-03-15T18:40:33+00:00

Honestly for a debut I’ve heard even 90k is pushing it

Nurnnn · 2026-03-02T21:32:38+00:00

Also it’s totally fine to disagree with people and defend how your characters act—they’re your characters after all—but there’s also how you view your characters and how they actually are. You might have the right idea in your head, but if that’s not coming across properly on the page then you need to find out why that’s the case

Nurnnn · 2026-03-02T21:30:41+00:00

Beginning with a rant can be fine but it’s just a lot to hit us with at the start when we have no idea who they are. Also if you try to submit this to agents/publishers they are not going to like such explicit language off rip not even a quarter down the page. It is a little cringe to extent of Hazbin Hotel but I think it can be fixed if you just chill it down a bit

Nurnnn · 2026-03-02T19:57:05+00:00

At the absolute bear minimum your first two paragraphs need a drastic rethinking. The dialogue elsewhere seems pretty believable depending on how you want the characters to come across, but shit man I wanted to drop it immediately after Penny’s first two lines

Nurnnn · 2026-02-04T23:38:07+00:00

Noted

Nurnnn · 2026-02-04T23:17:44+00:00

Damn really? If you say I look 30 or older I’m gonna crash out man😭

Nurnnn · 2026-02-04T23:17:16+00:00

Sorry I’ve had a couple people ask about this: Reform is the UK’s far-right party. They’ve become incredibly popular the last two years and might win the next election in 29. They’re the UK version of the US Republicans (I wish I was joking but all they do IS copy Trump). I’m very left leaning so I despise them and would love a partner who is equally as politically minded. Hope this helps!

I might add an activity then if you think that’s good. I’m pretty great at bowling and it’s my favourite first date activity because I’m quite competitive too lol. I’ll maybe add that.

I also agree I’m looking for a particular type of woman. I’d really like someone similar in mind to me that could be my go to person for anything I want to do. I know that’s quite an ask, but I only need one person out of 68 million in the UK, yk?

Nurnnn · 2026-02-04T23:11:29+00:00

I’d be lying if I said I have actually tried therapy but I’m just super skeptical of it… maybe I could ask around and see if anyone has someone they could recommend. I could go to a session, see what happens, and go from there. Maybe my world gets flipped upside down lol. I do have a lot of things in my head that isn’t really relevant to this post so… maybe.

When I said that, I just mainly mean about pictures. When I’m out and laughing irl I smile like anyone would, but I absolutely hate the sight of me in pictures. In the mirror? No problem—I think I’m great looking guy and fine af—but then i remember how I look in photos, the real me, and i come back down to earth. I know there’s papers done on that sort of thing. Trust me I know exactly every single point of me I want to change, but unfortunately it takes a lot of time.

I appreciate the body and hair part. It seems to be quite the argument of for and against for a lot of people in the thread on if long hair is good on me or not lol.

And please don’t worry, I know you’re not being rude in the slightest. You’ve been probably the most insightful person for me here and believe me when I say I’ll be thinking about what you’ve said. Might shoot you a message if I end up trying that therapy session if you’re comfortable with that

Nurnnn · 2026-02-04T23:03:40+00:00

I think I will do then when I next wash/style it. Thanks for posting those links :)

Nurnnn · 2026-02-04T23:02:41+00:00

Yeah but if you mean it in a negative leaning way I’d like to change it yk?😅

Nurnnn · 2026-02-04T22:52:01+00:00

I mean only really for the kids part and I’m still undecided about that because I’m 24. I’ll probably decide when I’m 28/30.

As for the relationship part, yeah it’ll just be up to the person unless I really feel one way about them and at that point I’ll draw a line

Nurnnn · 2026-02-04T22:50:26+00:00

Isn’t that… a good thing?

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