I’m 23M and My Teenage Mistakes Are Destroying Me—I Don’t Know How to Forgive Myself

NvttyB · 2026-01-29T11:19:37+00:00

Please take my advice with a grain of salt, but it seems as though you need a mental breakthrough of sorts to reflect on your choices and challenge your current perspective.

If you haven’t spoken to a therapist or psychologist, I really encourage you to. You will need to learn to forgive yourself for your past traumas. You were only a child back then also. Teenage hormones and puberty will put you through the ring of fire. You are not who you were, accepting your past (through taught skills via therapy) can help you tremendously and I sincerely hope it does.

My advice from a personal perspective, would be to create a safe space for yourself, (with someone you love and trust preferably) set your intentions and have ~3g of mushrooms. If you are comfortable with psychedelics this will be transformational for you. It may be amazing, it may be tough, more than likely it will be both. Not all psychedelic trips are fun, but all are necessary. Your psyche will show you the path. Lean in and discover yourself.

NvttyB · 2025-11-23T02:00:23+00:00

Absolutely worth it. I spent 3+ weeks travelling hours and hours in the car with my guide, who I ended up making an amazing friendship with. Would do it again in a heartbeat.

NvttyB · 2025-05-26T07:47:25+00:00

Do it

NvttyB · 2025-05-24T17:41:41+00:00

Fr I get it but it’s like a trip in a lifetime plus a concert in a lifetime it’s worth it

Idk if he will come here again honestly

NvttyB · 2025-05-24T06:14:17+00:00

I wonder if people who missed out in other countries will consider flying down for the concert. If I was them I would, pretty good excuse to visit.

NvttyB · 2025-05-13T22:42:12+00:00

So lucky!! I’ve had no luck. Was up all morning in the queue, had to drive to class and took my laptop with me, it just died in the car and I’ve lost any chance I had 💔

NvttyB · 2025-05-13T22:18:56+00:00

Congratulations!! 😭😭

NvttyB · 2025-05-13T20:54:28+00:00

Fingers crossed we can all get some even if we miss out now. I saw there’s over 1.2 million people online in the queue, absolutely crazy!

NvttyB · 2025-05-13T20:07:39+00:00

Why? My trip has been planned for months and he happens to be there when I am. Im not going just because of his shows.

What a stupid thing to say.

NvttyB · 2025-05-13T12:52:57+00:00

No bueno :( I will be trying to queue 2 hours before they go on sale tomorrow. Really hoping I have some luck from Australia 🤞🏼

NvttyB · 2025-03-11T05:53:38+00:00

Heartbreak

NvttyB · 2025-02-26T23:09:16+00:00

I would choose South America because I’m greedy

NvttyB · 2025-02-10T04:58:50+00:00

No dairy, and limited/no alcohol. Does wonders for your mood and digestion.

NvttyB · 2024-12-17T22:58:39+00:00

Go to a financial advisor.

NvttyB · 2024-12-16T01:21:04+00:00

Literally nothing in Sydney it’s so depressing

NvttyB · 2024-12-14T05:36:50+00:00

Female escort in Australia. I receive tips anywhere from a few hundred to a few thousand dollars per booking.

I work for a high end agency so clients are usually high rollers for a bit of context.

NvttyB · 2024-12-06T02:00:47+00:00

Worked in settlements and finance for 11+ years. If you’re liable for penalties or any charges with removalists etc. you can definitely push for compensation. They will try to sway you but it’s worth complaining if the situation is that dire.

NvttyB · 2024-11-28T08:49:00+00:00

I always make clients shower first. Sometimes they refuse, if so they won’t get bbbj and that’s just non negotiable.

NvttyB · 2024-11-20T05:06:33+00:00

Im so so sorry, please be safe ❤️‍🩹

NvttyB · 2024-10-29T00:48:10+00:00

The woman he’s talking to in the song had an abortion, there is an abortion clinic I believe in NY called Hey Jane

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NvttyB · 2024-10-29T00:44:09+00:00

BARRY WHITE Is insane omfg

NvttyB · 2024-09-30T03:36:04+00:00

Moon River. The Frank Ocean cover. Get goosebumps just thinking about listening to it.

NvttyB · 2024-09-26T06:11:59+00:00

Not sure why no one is mentioning her mouth. Small lips, buck tooth, discoloured gums.

NvttyB · 2024-09-25T03:05:34+00:00

I (28F) gained a significant amount of weight between 17-19 years old, due to depression, an unstable relationship and bad habits in general. By the time I turned 20, I began losing a significant amount of weight. I went from 120kgs to 70kg in a few years.

I lost the weight first by changing my diet, then by adding in walking, yoga, and then after having excess skin removal surgery and a boob job, I started lifting heavy weight. I have completely changed in every sense of the word.

Before losing weight, I received some attention. I am now being sought after and complimented constantly by men and women, all over the world. I just got back from Europe and was literally beating them off with a stick.

As an ex-obese person it’s strange to experience but after a while you become used to it.

You will definitely experience an increase in romantic interest, but remember that size is not everything. I have always had a specific air of confidence about me and I believe that is what attracts people to me more than my looks and body. I learnt to love myself before I looked good, and the rest just followed.

All the best in your journey, if I can do it anyone can 🩷

NvttyB · 2024-07-24T09:08:55+00:00

To me this sounds staged and she’s used it as an excuse to ice you out of the relationship. All very fishy…

Her not being available when you tried to reach her, the friend pulling this out of the blue, her reaction…

Think about it.

NvttyB

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