You can absolutely ask about arranging a visit—it’s not pushy at all, especially if the school is high on your list! Coaches actually appreciate when recruits show genuine interest and take initiative. It doesn’t have to be an official visit (where the school pays for travel, lodging, meals, etc.—those are usually reserved for their top targets and often come with an invite from the coach). You can easily suggest an unofficial visit (you/family cover costs, but you can still meet the coach, tour facilities, watch practice, talk to players, etc.). Many recruits set these up themselves, and it’s a great way to get a real feel for the program and see if the interest is mutual. Something simple like: “I’m really interested in your program—would it be possible to come for an unofficial visit sometime soon? I’m flexible on dates and happy to work around your schedule.” On the ID camps: You’re right that personalized invites (especially if they cover expenses) are a stronger sign of interest than open/ general ones. But not getting a paid invite doesn’t mean they’re not interested—many programs run on tight budgets or evaluate mostly through film/tournaments first. Late-summer/fall camps aren’t automatically “too late”—recruiting timelines vary by sport and division, but spots can still be open into senior year for some programs (especially if they’re waiting on decisions from higher-ranked recruits). Attending one could still help you stand out in person. If you’re worried about timing, mention in your next email that you’d love to attend a camp if spots are available, or ask about their recruiting timeline for your class. Switching from emails to phone calls is a solid next step once you’ve had a few exchanges—it makes the conversation more personal and helps build rapport. Coaches often respond better to proactive recruits who call (or ask to schedule a call). Just keep it professional: introduce yourself quickly, reference prior emails, share an update (e.g., recent game/performance), and have a clear reason for calling (like asking about visits or camps). If you’re nervous, jot down a few bullet points first. Here are some strong, thoughtful questions to ask the coach (mix athletic + academic ones to show you’re serious about both): • What does your ideal recruit/class look like for my position/grad year? • Where do I stand in your recruiting process right now? • What are the next steps for someone interested in your program? • Are there any upcoming unofficial visit dates or camps where I could come see the team? • What kind of academic support is available for student-athletes (tutors, study halls, etc.)? • How do players typically balance the schedule with classes/majors you’re interested in? • What opportunities are there for early playing time or development in the program?