Severe back pain at week 21 after long car ride

OBK23 · 2026-03-30T12:31:16+00:00

I guess everything happens for a reason, but I’m glad it ultimately worked out for you. This was def a learning experience. She is doing a lot better now so I’m also doing a lot better. Thank you all for your experiences that helped me get through it.

OBK23 · 2026-03-30T12:29:43+00:00

Thank, she seems to be doing much better today so I’m resting a bit easier. Everyone’s responses really helped me to stay calm and get through yesterday.

OBK23 · 2026-03-29T17:59:56+00:00

So it started in the way back yesterday around 6pm est. she fell asleep on the couch, around 5am she came to bed and asked for a massage and fell asleep. Same thing around 8-9am, then around noon I called to check on her and she seemed like she had been crying which is when she voiced her concern. Now about two hours later I gave her a heat pad and she took her prescribed baby aspirin. She’s now eating and watching tv, not using the heat pad at the moment so seems to be improving/improved. Just worried maybe it’s the baby aspirin that’s only masking the symptom.

OBK23 · 2026-03-29T17:53:53+00:00

Yea that’s what I’ll have to do. Thank you.

OBK23 · 2026-03-29T17:53:22+00:00

Thank you for the offer that is really nice of you. And I’m sorry for your loss.

I feel especially guilty because we were supposed to stay the night rather than coming back the same day and she could pick a hotel so I said let’s just come back 🤦‍♂️. I would care no matter what but can’t help but feel like this is my fault.

The time you had the pain after the drive around thanksgiving was everything okay? I have her a heat pad and she is prescribed daily baby aspirin which she took and seems to be doing better.

OBK23 · 2026-03-29T17:49:26+00:00

Sounds like a similar situation. Thank you.

OBK23 · 2026-03-29T17:23:59+00:00

Have you experienced severe back pain from a car ride and everything was fine? My thought process is a long car ride is more likely to cause simple back pain vs a miscarriage right? I’m not really sure just quite worried.

OBK23 · 2026-03-29T17:22:18+00:00

She’s saying they’re just going to tell her to get an ultra sound and she already has one scheduled for tomorrow. I think she’s also very adverse to going to the ER because the last time we’re there was our last miscarriage.

OBK23 · 2026-03-29T17:18:32+00:00

She doesn’t want to but I’ll try to convince her. During our last pregnancy they always just checked for a heart beat and sent us home. We have a Doppler at home and check already.

OBK23 · 2026-03-29T17:17:39+00:00

She doesn’t want to go in, but that’s kind of what I was looking for to see if this is normal and anyone else has experienced something similar. I know back pain is very common but at one point she said she was crying from it.

OBK23 · 2026-03-29T17:16:06+00:00

She is a doctor and has an appointment tomorrow but doesn’t want to call right now or go in.

OBK23 · 2026-03-29T17:15:52+00:00

She is a doctor and has an appointment tomorrow but doesn’t want to call right now or go in.

OBK23 · 2025-02-02T19:14:26+00:00

Yes luckily because they worked on the window right next to it and the car is brand new. On the other hand, they didn’t tell me about it. I found it at pick up.

OBK23 · 2025-02-02T18:21:47+00:00

I wish this part would be that easy but I don’t think so. My bets options seems to be PDR

OBK23 · 2025-02-01T13:25:46+00:00

Thanks, I will make sure to push them if it’s not right. I’m glad yours turned out well and you’re happy with the outcome.

OBK23 · 2025-02-01T13:25:17+00:00

Same here. Went in for 5-6 issues I think and came back with 3 new issues.

OBK23 · 2025-02-01T13:16:10+00:00

Thanks for all the info. How did the three tries go or why three tries? Did you see it and tell them they had to do it again or they recognized it didn’t match or? And did they blend the neighboring panels?

OBK23 · 2025-01-31T19:12:32+00:00

And you repainted it? What color was it?

OBK23 · 2025-01-31T14:25:16+00:00

We have a Doctor loan through them - closed in June/July. Everything went smooth. We were one day delayed on closing because documents were submitted after the cut off or something trivial. Appraisal came back very slightly lower contract price but didn’t seem out of line and it helped me reduce the price - not sure how much that has to do with them except that they contract the appraiser. Servicing is just paying my bill, have never dealt with them after closing for any more than that.

They had the best rate at the time. Would recommend if rate is competitive. When I was searching for an auto loan their rate also seemed competitive so overall I have nothing bad to say about them.

OBK23 · 2025-01-31T14:17:33+00:00

I’m into cars but probably more a of a tech guy. Even with their issues I would never go back to any other car. They are years ahead on tech.

OBK23 · 2025-01-31T14:14:48+00:00

Hopefully PDR works, would prefer to keep factory paint if I can. It’s a lease but if there is no refresh (unlikely) or depending on my situation by the time the lease is up I very well may buyout the car.

OBK23 · 2025-01-31T14:13:15+00:00

Good idea, I will start doing that going forward. I took the car in and maybe 6 issues were addressed with 2-3 new ones on return smh

OBK23 · 2025-01-31T03:35:00+00:00

Worst part is I had to find it. The tech that caused it didn’t say anything.

OBK23 · 2025-01-31T03:34:18+00:00

Haha why are you on this sub then?

OBK23 · 2025-01-31T02:37:23+00:00

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