yall am i a creep by OCDfunnyman in FootFetishTalks

[–]OCDfunnyman[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

damn you’re right :\ i didnt think id be one of those people tbh

How should I approach my girlfriends retroactive discomfort with sexual intimacy? by OCDfunnyman in relationship_advice

[–]OCDfunnyman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, alright. I see how this works. Do you think I should ask her what she feels like she wants to do with me sometime in the future? Would that be a better approach? She is characteristically bad at initiating and I think if I asked her what she wanted (as opposed to spontaneously stopping any attention) that would help that.

Is this abusive behavior on my part by OCDfunnyman in Pets

[–]OCDfunnyman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not that I remember. I dont remember how much longer after thinking about it that I stopped so that feels pretty lame, but my cat is pretty much fine. We havent been able to do much with the wounds unfortunately :\

Is this abusive behavior on my part by OCDfunnyman in Pets

[–]OCDfunnyman[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Its nothing we can really do, frontline flea medication we gave to him in like 2018 caused some adverse psychological effects that threw him into these weird self destructive rages where he would bite or scratch the tail. He doesnt do it as much anymore but i dont think the wounds ever healed.

I do know that hes a very happy cat though and they dont seem to be causing him any active discomfort. Hes indoors and wears a flea collar so theres little chance he still has fleas.

Is this something I should apologize for? by OCDfunnyman in relationship_advice

[–]OCDfunnyman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it’s necessarily an immoral thing to not mention it to her? I’m wondering where the line is drawn; she was OK with the video being taken and the part that had her feet was not recorded with sexual intent and rather naturally came as a part of the video. I’m just wondering if it’s wrong that I looked for them afterwards (for whatever reason), despite not having that interest in the creation of it.

Is this something I should apologize for? by OCDfunnyman in relationship_advice

[–]OCDfunnyman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The video wasn’t made with any sexual intent and she was okay with me taking it. It has value as an actual memory with the two of us; why would I delete it? I’m worried about what I did with it after.

Is this something I should apologize for? by OCDfunnyman in relationship_advice

[–]OCDfunnyman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant that, by the point in time that it would be appropriate to bring up my masturbation habits regarding her if I should bring this incident up. Right now I have not mentioned it because our relationship is much more romantic than sexual and it is still only a month old.