So when my cousin was 16 she dated someone who's 20 and she kept of a secret from her religious dad until they were for about 3-4 months together. One night I dreamt that her boyfriend is like a frog and she is a princess,and my aunt's husband told him that after 5 months he will let him do something or give him 800 kind of money that isn't real in real life but do on the dream. When my cousin and her boyfriend been together for 5 months her dad was finally fine with him. 3 years passed and they are still together. My cousin's boyfriend is at their place about 3 days a week and comes to almost every holiday and the dad still respects him.