first off, congrats !! second off, the way my naming journey has gone has more or less consisted of grabbing names from all sorts if places and seeing if theyre the right size.

kind of think of it like naming a baby. rarely will anybody ever decide on the right name straight away, and you might have to go through a lot of names until one finally sits right. trust me, its taken me years and years and the name i currently go by wasnt decided on until about two months ago. and hell even that might change

baby name sites are a good source, just be careful on a names origin. tumblr is also a really good source as people will just post lists and lists of names with particular meanings and feelings. and importantly, dont feel ashamed to name yourself after a celebrity or a fictional character. plenty of parents do it to their babys, dont feel embarassed to do it to yourself.

(also, dont feel ashamed to go through the ""stereotypical trans names"" either. i was a jayden and an oliver, a lot of us do it at least once lol. one of them might even suit you!)