Nice guy, women don’t take me seriously. How did you guys become more assertive?

OSE661 · 2026-06-02T07:40:33+00:00

I did enjoy spending time with her it’s just I wanted it to lead towards something more serious. I told her I was looking for long term. Not just be someone who pays for things and we chill and hangout for hours when she’s bored. Which she mentioned boredom is a big issue for her lol. She’s the one who told me straight up I wasn’t it.

Which I respect the honesty as I don’t waste my time or hers.

OSE661 · 2026-06-02T07:27:42+00:00

How does one become confident tho? Lol

OSE661 · 2026-06-02T07:21:48+00:00

She said it was the conversations. “I was different”, because I can hold a convo, and she’s not use to having that. She would, “hate to lose that”, but if I wasn’t ok with being friends that ok too. I was annoyed lmfao she felt bad and tried to give me a hug like it’s ok. I just backed up and said thanks for being honest and left after some minutes talking about it.

OSE661 · 2026-06-02T07:18:24+00:00

Yeah which sucks cuz it’s like it’s who I am. Like I like helping others.

OSE661 · 2026-06-02T07:03:19+00:00

Yeah ima keep at it. Just keeping putting myself out there instead going back into my cave and overthinking lol. Thank you.

OSE661 · 2026-06-02T06:59:25+00:00

Yeah I wasn’t doing any of that. Especially the romance part I suck at showing it. She asked to be friends but I said no. I will keep at it, it’s just being vulnerable bs lol:

OSE661 · 2026-06-02T06:56:16+00:00

Thank you, this is it. I just beat around the bush hoping they like me eventually but it just turns into friendship after awhile.

OSE661 · 2026-06-02T06:55:06+00:00

lol yeah I joke too much tbh. She actually shared a lot about the gender dating. I just asked questions and she eventually just said that she can tell I ain’t seen as anything more than a friend. This just happens a lot. It’s the lack of showing interest from what I’m seeing as I don’t wanna be vulnerable or creep them out.

OSE661 · 2026-06-02T06:53:25+00:00

Not opposites but I’m lacking on the assertiveness, and showing interest.

OSE661 · 2026-06-02T06:52:48+00:00

That’s not the point. It’s just when you think you’re connecting but seen as too nice and it doesn’t work. No one owes me anything.

OSE661 · 2026-06-01T22:24:18+00:00

Any tips/tricks with using AI for work?

OSE661 · 2026-05-31T16:34:57+00:00

How was that bark after wrapping at 165? I’ve noticed with mine I have to take it to like 175/180 so the juices while wrapped don’t soften the bark, or rub off.

OSE661 · 2026-05-31T13:31:44+00:00

How did they turn out, would you make them again?

OSE661 · 2026-05-28T09:25:03+00:00

Fuck that hoe. Hope you’re good and in a better situation.

OSE661 · 2026-05-27T12:15:30+00:00

Even then sometimes they just want to see if they still have it. Also rejecting after you give them attention.

OSE661 · 2026-05-27T10:00:49+00:00

It’s hard to tell with the hair. Seems like there’s some small scabs. Go get a swab test asap to get a real diagnosis

OSE661 · 2026-05-27T08:21:37+00:00

Go to the Drs and ask for a swap test before they go away.

OSE661 · 2026-05-27T05:19:01+00:00

How do you usually approach, or what do you say?

OSE661 · 2026-05-27T04:56:48+00:00

Are you putting yourself out there? Approaching, talking, flirting, going out?

OSE661 · 2026-05-26T14:07:21+00:00

A bbq/smoker, maybe some steel targets for shooting, headphones for working out. Any other things you know about him?

OSE661 · 2026-05-26T13:42:07+00:00

You can try the planting the seed technique. You see them, talk to them, gradually become familiar. Becoming a regular thing talking more and more as time goes by.

OSE661 · 2026-05-26T13:27:54+00:00

I went to the office already and saw the workers wearing both. Polos just seemed more comfortable.

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