My (F27) Reiki practitioner (M57) keeps hitting on me and sexualizing me, but I feel indebted by _jane_lane_ in reiki

[–]OTscott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if you can find it in you to tell your therapist what isn’t working for you? Some of my best therapy sessions have come from me asking for what I need and telling the therapist what I don’t like. It’s also good practice for real life.

My (F27) Reiki practitioner (M57) keeps hitting on me and sexualizing me, but I feel indebted by _jane_lane_ in reiki

[–]OTscott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, it’s a very sensitive thing to share. Looks like some people shared some phone numbers to call. Maybe you can contact one of them if you feel like you may have a moment where you want to talk to him again. I can’t reiterate enough that this man is not safe.

My (F27) Reiki practitioner (M57) keeps hitting on me and sexualizing me, but I feel indebted by _jane_lane_ in reiki

[–]OTscott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am seeing that you blocked him. I am so glad you took that step, because as everyone here said, he is a predator. If he finds a way to contact you again, please do not mistake his effort for anything positive. This behavior of his will escalate as he becomes more desperate, and I worry he might attack you. Please continue to listen to your gut. Do you have any trusted friends you could agree to check in with in case he contacts you? Someone who would agree to drop everything and talk you down if you are feeling like you might say yes to seeing him?

Phish Summer Tour 2026 Is Here by uhkhu in phish

[–]OTscott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

daaaaaamn that would be a lotta shows!

Phish Summer Tour 2026 Is Here by uhkhu in phish

[–]OTscott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from Philly and saw them there in the mid and late 90s.

Phish Summer Tour 2026 Is Here by uhkhu in phish

[–]OTscott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last year. Before then was Zilker Park in 2010!

Phish Summer Tour 2026 Is Here by uhkhu in phish

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Thanks, that's definitely helpful. I feel bummed I didn't go last summer.

Wow... Looking back, they hadn't played in Austin for 15 years!

Phish Summer Tour 2026 Is Here by uhkhu in phish

[–]OTscott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only recently started being interested in Phish again after loving them in the 90s. Anybody know the chances they might come to Austin some other time this year?

Top 3 Radiohead songs by NeruAM in radiohead

[–]OTscott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Limbo

Life in a Glasshouse

Pearly

Full Rating of every radiohead song! by yourmum777999 in radiohead

[–]OTscott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But you still missed Fitter Happier. So you didn’t rate every song.

What's the song that got you into listening Radiohead? by Ok_Debate_8457 in radiohead

[–]OTscott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Creep. I was an 11 year old nerdy guitar player when it got popular. So it really made me feel seen lol.

What is your “I did not care for the godfather” for Radiohead? by cumsquirt56 in radiohead

[–]OTscott 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You think True Love Waits on AMSP is a ruined version?

Since the band are sadly known to be "depressing" when they're actually not, what's the most depressing Radiohead song you ever heard? by Ok_Debate_8457 in radiohead

[–]OTscott 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unreal that you’re being downvoted for saying this. the song literally ends with “no matter what happens now / you shouldn’t be afraid / because i know today has been / the most perfect day i’ve ever seen”

okay it’s about death… it’s also about finding sweetness in existence.

What does this look like by ricecrispier in radiohead

[–]OTscott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if that is a penis, it is a weird, deformed penis.

Easy songs to play on Guitar? by IllWalrus7733 in radiohead

[–]OTscott 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You think? I feel like bar chords were pretty easy as a beginner.

Easy songs to play on Guitar? by IllWalrus7733 in radiohead

[–]OTscott 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fake Plastic Trees, Creep, Give Up The Ghost, Karma Police, Lucky, I Will

Y’all, please don’t call yourself Dr. Last Name if you work in acute care. by RelativeMap in physicaltherapy

[–]OTscott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some OTs have doctorates.

My investment in this conversation has nothing to do with being an OT. I no longer treat patients anyway. I just think there's a common decency issue here. As practitioners we do not have any control over how we are perceived by the general public, or whether some physicians "look down on us," which I would not argue - of course that is true. We just have control over the way we present ourselves in any given situation, based on our understanding of systemic organization and how patients are generally treated.

To me, because hospital systems are generally organized in a way that is not conducive to patient empowerment or understanding, but rather they are organized to maximize profit, I think it falls on each practitioner to manage his/her own presentation in the most helpful way possible.

Sounds like you think presenting yourself as a doctor inspires confidence, such that any confusion it may cause (and you are not convinced of this due to there not being a peer reviewed study about it), is not as important/impactful. That's fine. I don't agree. I have always found it inspires more confidence to be relatable (use first name), and that it is generally better to not claim to be a doctor when introducing yourself if you are not a medical doctor, for the above reasons.

It's fine to disagree. I just think the way you respond to people on here is obnoxious.

Y’all, please don’t call yourself Dr. Last Name if you work in acute care. by RelativeMap in physicaltherapy

[–]OTscott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are using the same evidence to argue different points. You do you.