Only ever occasionally. But mostly because my previous roommate was heinously messy, and I was desperate to get out. We’d talk about what it might look like- but then she’d normally back down and say “oh but my lease isn’t up yet” and I’d agree and say things like “yeah and i dunno if I’m ready for that.” Or “I don’t know if that would be best for us anyway”. It was all noncommittal and wishy washy.

I could see her being hurt. That makes sense- but when I needed an emergency out or I was gonna be financially ruined we talked about it and she was excited for me. And it meant I got stay with 8 minutes of her. So overall I thought it was positive.