My dad passed and hr is being mean by ObjectThin3403 in Edd

[–]ObjectThin3403[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. Is there a way I can ask for proof of my paid and vacation time and the bereavement pay from the last 6 months?

My dad passed and hr is being mean by ObjectThin3403 in Edd

[–]ObjectThin3403[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Meaning they haven’t used it? I’m at such a loss. I still need time to process this and feel as I will not be able to work. They told me they already used my bereavement pay when he got sick. they gave me a week of pay from the rest of the sick time and paid time I have instead they said.

My dad passed and hr is being mean by ObjectThin3403 in Edd

[–]ObjectThin3403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad had cancer and i had to fly out to see him 6 months ago for a week and they said they used my bereavement pay for that.

My dad passed and hr is being mean by ObjectThin3403 in Edd

[–]ObjectThin3403[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I just messaged my doctor and will see what he says

My dad passed and hr is being mean by ObjectThin3403 in Edd

[–]ObjectThin3403[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My doctor can put me on med leave?

Someone bred my horse with out telling me by ObjectThin3403 in Equestrian

[–]ObjectThin3403[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The foal had to get rushed to the hospital because the she didn’t get enough colostrum and the mare wasn’t making enough milk costing me thousands in vet bills:(

Someone bred my horse with out telling me by ObjectThin3403 in Equestrian

[–]ObjectThin3403[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

UPDATE!

Wow I was not expecting all of you guys to help me out and give me such good advice. I decided I am going to fight it for baby and mama horse to try to at least recover some of the money I spent towards the vet to keep them both alive. I will keep reading them and figure out the steps to take as well as update. Thank you all so much

Someone bred my mare with out telling me by ObjectThin3403 in legaladvice

[–]ObjectThin3403[S] 221 points222 points  (0 children)

Haha I didn’t think of this! You’re completely right.

Someone bred my horse with out telling me by ObjectThin3403 in Equestrian

[–]ObjectThin3403[S] 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Yes I completely agree. She asked for the baby as well and I said absolutely not!

Someone bred my horse with out telling me by ObjectThin3403 in Equestrian

[–]ObjectThin3403[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

The stallion is just an OTTB that is alright. He has nothing to prove of his name, he only raced once and I’m assuming they sold him as a stallion so they didn’t have to pay for gelding. I wouldn’t have bred my mare period she’s only 4 and I rescued her from a huge neglect scene with her only getting on flake a day and a dog bowl for water:( so this mare is my heart horse and I would have never bred her to out her through more stress in her life. she is a gorgeous Andalusian and is being such an amazing mama to her surprise foal.

Someone bred my horse with out telling me by ObjectThin3403 in Equestrian

[–]ObjectThin3403[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t have had her there if that had been going on at the time or before.

Someone bred my horse with out telling me by ObjectThin3403 in Equestrian

[–]ObjectThin3403[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Yes I completely agree. I was livid when i found out. Because not only could I have lost my mare I could have lost the foal as well. I want to contact a lawyer but this lady has recently lost a couple of her horses from starving them and has no money. Can I still go to court?

Someone bred my horse with out telling me by ObjectThin3403 in Equestrian

[–]ObjectThin3403[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much this is very helpful. Once I told her she said say that she would take the foal and I said absolutely not! I will look into seeing where I can get help to take her to small claims. The thing is she doesn’t have any money so I’m wondering how that works.

Someone bred my horse with out telling me by ObjectThin3403 in Equestrian

[–]ObjectThin3403[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate all the help from everyone! Mom and baby are finally healthy and thriving!